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    <title>Blog Posts From Active Expert: Gale Bernhardt Tagged With afraid_to_be_last</title>
    <link>http://community.active.com/blogs/GaleBernhardt</link>
    <description>Gale Bernhardt's personal blog on triathlon, mountain biking, road cycling, running, "for women only" stuff,  running with a dog and other issues in the endurance sports world.</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 00:38:04 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Won’t enter a race because you’re afraid to be last? I guarantee you won’t be last.</title>
      <link>http://community.active.com/blogs/GaleBernhardt/2012/01/19/won-t-enter-a-race-because-you-re-afraid-to-be-last-i-guarantee-you-won-t-be-last</link>
      <description>&lt;!-- [DocumentBodyStart:cd5e6816-d122-4675-98ee-963916eba51e] --&gt;&lt;div class="jive-rendered-content"&gt;&lt;p&gt;Yesterday I was talking with a person I hadn&amp;rsquo;t seen in awhile. This person told me they were interested in entering a race (in this case a sprint triathlon) but they didn&amp;rsquo;t want to enter the event because they were afraid of being last and having everyone stare at them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="min-height: 8pt; height: 8pt; padding: 0px;"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here&amp;rsquo;s what I said:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="min-height: 8pt; height: 8pt; padding: 0px;"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;People are more concerned about themselves and not nearly as concerned about you. If I were to survey the entry field, I suspect not one person would care about who comes in mid-pack, tenth from the end, second from the end and last. &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;If you show up to the start line, you are miles ahead of all the people mashing a$$ on the couch made by Excuses and the chair made by Empty Promises. You&amp;rsquo;ll never be last. &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I got a note that the person entered a race this summer. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="min-height: 8pt; height: 8pt; padding: 0px;"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Cool.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;!-- [DocumentBodyEnd:cd5e6816-d122-4675-98ee-963916eba51e] --&gt;</description>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 17:50:26 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2012-01-19T17:50:26Z</dc:date>
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