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A Quarterly Update: Parents Running

Posted by MegNH on Sep 21, 2008 8:18:26 PM

I noticed my blog linked to the Family Page of Active's web site. So I decided to write an update.

It's been over 3 months since the Hollis Race. I'm proud to say that I still run 3-5 days/week. Last week I ran 26 miles. I'm hoping to run the Applefest Half Marathon in two weeks. I'm not very well prepared, but I might give it a go anyway.

My latest thoughts:

 

I've been thinking about all the running that parents do and the fatigue that comes with having children. This is my sweet Caroline.

 

 

Running after kids:

I once ran after my first child (a 2 year old heading for the road) with all 200+ pregnant pounds of me (belly bouncing and pelvis about to crack down the middle) jiggling the whole way. I moved only slightly faster than a tortoise. Not pretty.

 

This summer my 3yo son (3rd child) was out in the driveway with my husband. My husband took his eyes off him for a few minutes (You and I both know how fast those little kamikaze's can disappear). My 7yo (making amends for forcing her fat/pregnant mom to waddle after her as a toddler) starting screaming, "Alex is almost in the road!" I hit the door running and lept like a gazelle (not hitting a single step) from the porch to the ground. I sprinted at what might have been olympic speeds (ok, maybe not olympic...but I might have beaten the local H.S. track star at the 100m) and caught my son just before an enormous dirt truck flew past.

 

Oh yes......and we mustn't forget the playful "I'm gonna get you" (or as my son calls it, "i'm dunna dit you") running that we do when we're chasing them around in their PJs after bath time. This one is my favorite.

 

Running the kids to School, Sports, and Scouts (which really isn't running at all):

I get up every cold Saturday morning all fall to bring my 5 year old to 8am "soccer." ....which really isn't soccer all...just a preschool version of it. I then go home and run the 7 year old to 10am soccer. I do this (not because I love sucking down coffee on cold wet soccer fields at 8am) but rather (just like you) I want my kids to fall in love with being active.

 

 

Running for Me: A glorious and monumental event in the life of an exhausted parent.

My favorite time to run is at the end of the day. I stick my husband with putting the kids to bed and I head out the door just as the sun starts to turn the landscape that beautiful golden color.

 

 

Running on Empty

None of it is ever perfect. I sometimes come home from a run and find my husband has put one (or two) of the kids to bed without brushing their teeth. I've also come home from 8am soccer to find my exhausted husband still asleep and the 7yr old NOT ready for 10am soccer (that starts in 10minutes). Sometimes I eat a donut for lunch. Sometimes I'm so tired that I miss my long run on the weekends because I'd rather get a nap before my husband leaves for his next business trip. Parenting is a non-stop obstacle course. But I will never give up being active....no matter how many obstacles I have to run around.

 

 

 

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Sep 22, 2008 5:08 PM Guest Manti  says:

Hey Megan... glad to see you out there still running.   Hope to see you at Applefest... My wife has taken up running again now that our youngest is weined and we are registered to run the Applefest relay together.  She is is facing many of the same challenges of finding time to run while caring for and shuttling four kids about, but she is coming along well and will do great come race day.  See you there (the applecrisp is to die for!)

Sep 22, 2008 5:34 PM MegNH MegNH    says in response to Manti:

Hi Manti,

 

Good to hear from you. It's great that your wife is getting back into it.  But it is oh-so-hard to start all over from scratch.  I admire her courage. 

 

I hope to be at Applefest, but I'm really doubting whether I'm prepared enough.  I missed my long run this weekend....just too tired (middle child has been up every night this week).  I used my free-time-for-mom to sleep instead of run.  After my long run next weekend, I'll decide if I can handle a half-marathon. 

 

If I don't see you, good luck!

Sep 30, 2008 11:35 AM mvalenti mvalenti    says:

Thanks Megan! This is such a great blog for the family page. And one that I am sure speaks to a lot of active parents. And the pictures are great! I'm glad to see that you are still making (or scraping together) time for yourself, and that you are still running. It's a challenge even for people that don't have three kids--I can't even imagine. Good luck with your long run this weekend and getting to Applefest. A fall race sounds like so much fun!