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One down.. new one to go!!

Posted by softballmom41 Apr 19, 2010

Hello All & a big CONGRATULATIONS to you all!!  Way to go! Well, Sunday morning came bright and early.. 5:15 am. Got up, me & hubby left around 6:15 and headed for LA.  Got there at 7:30 nice and early giving us time to stretch and take it all in.  So, my first thing that fired me up a bit was my number. As you've noticed, my sign in name is Softballmom41. Well, when we registered and got our numbers... yep.. #141!  That was pretty cool. 41 has been our Family's number. My husband's Basketball number was 41, and now our daughters have taken on that proud number of their own for softball. Something simple, but I thought it was pretty cool. what are the odds of that happening.  (thought maybe Michelle fixed that! )  Then, for those of you who know the area in LA where the race took place, it was USC territory. And I of course wore a UCLA shirt to 'represent'! So that was pretty funny having everyone comment on my UCLA shirt. Even when we came through the finish line, the announcer was teasing me about it. All in fun!  Started the race, and did a little jog to get going. It felt good. I knew I'd be fine and wasn't too worried, but I wanted to really challenge my time.  So here I am 5 ft. 6 in. and my husband is 6 ft. 3 in. His regular step is like 2 of mine. So I had to push it a bit to keep up with him.  Everything was great!  My husband had knee surgery maybe about 6 year ago, and sometimes has to take it easy.  Well, he had his brace but it started bothering him half way through, so we took it slower. We finished and all was fine. We walked it and finished in exactly 70 min.  Sure I would've liked a quicker time, but we had a lot of fun together and we did it together!  Just having him there with me and participating with me meant the world!   So, on to the next challenge. I've already signed up for the next one coming next month in San Diego. I'm excited to continue on!  This has become a new found adventure and a thrill to set goals, believe it, and achieve it!   We all can continue on!   And...  don't forget to celebrate the 'small victories'.  Good Luck to you all, and thanks again to Coach Jenny & Michelle for all the great advice, encouragement, and support. I'm going to miss that.

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Am I Ready??

Posted by softballmom41 Apr 8, 2010

Ok guys.. are we ready?  Did we do enough?  Why do we always second guess ourselves??  Well, we are changing are lives for the better and we are all better off than we were when we started this journey!  Sorry I haven't blogged for a bit, but it's nice to be back and reading everyone's posts. I love all the continued support and encouragement!  I feel like I have been losing momentum this last week. I still feel okay about my training and I am down 12 pounds (& stuck there), but I'm pretty sure it has been emotional stress that has got me stuck!  I  have been really trying to hang in there and talk my way through those tough times. I know what I need to do to be successful.  Now that my body has changed a bit and is used to walking, I have been sleeping better and feel better throughout the days. I definitely feel the difference!  I am excited for the L.A. run/walk for water!  My husband will be participating with me and has been encouraging me along the way.  I can't believe it's almost here!  In fact, I mentioned this to Kim at one time, and thought I'd share with all of you...  My husband bought me a beautiful Brighton bracelet which says: "Celebrate small victories."  How fitting for me & my goals.  I wear it each day and remember the meaning it has for me.  We do need to celebrate those small victories because that is what leads to the big victories! We ARE worth those celebrations and we are the ones who make the choice to be victorious!  This time in our life is just a little glimpse of the big picture!  WE decide, WE act, and WE will ultimately be responsible for our achievements! Each of us has different trials and challenges to go through in life, but this will be one less for me, because I will continue to be active and make good choices for my health, which in turn can only benefit my family!  I am thankful to be a part of this program at this time in my life.  It has truly been life changing. My father continues to struggle with so many health problems, and I hope that I can change my path now to a healthier lifestyle!  Thank you Active & thank you Michelle!

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Keeping at it!!

Posted by softballmom41 Mar 19, 2010

Congrats to all the winners!  It's always a nice motivation to have a little extra incentive!!  Well, this week has been a good one, I'm getting all of my workouts in, and it's feeling like a normal part of my daily routine.  My husband and daughter's are really keeping me in check. I feel loved and supported!  I have to say that my 10 year old daughter is pretty funny... She asked me the other night if I got my walking in and I told her, yes!  I told her "remember I get my 'orders' from my email and they let me know how long and at what rate,  she said yes, but don't you want to do more?  Geez, I'm doing good to just do what is required, and she wants more from me!! She told me she is going to make me a chart so she'll be able to keep track.  She was explaining to me how she  was going to chart my progress and set up the days of workouts!  I might have a 'trainer' in the making!  Se loves sports and is very athletic!

Today, my husband & I took our 3 year old to San Diego's Wild Animal Park.  We have passes and she LOVES going there. It was fun just us three, while the other two were at school!  OH, those hills....  I have to say that I got around much better , it was still a bit challenging, but it felt good to feel like I could walk up those hills without having to stop! That was a good workout in itself!  I still haven't been sleeping well, and I think that is what's causing me to feel like I need to 'graze' throughout the day. The last two days have been quite emotionally draining for me, as I deal with some big family issues with siblings and my parents. But I feel in control this time, and am not going to sabotage my diet and ruin what I've worked so hard at.  No more emotional eating!  I've got to think about me and be 'selfish' in a good way. I am getting excited for the upcoming race.  I hope we all stick with it, and keep going strong!  Just like I tell my softball team (we are the Warriors),  fight for what you want and don't ever give up or quit!  So, I say to 'US' fight like a Warrior, especially through the tough times. STAND UP, STAND OUT, and STAND STRONG!!

 

Have a great weekend-  Ruth 

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Week three... not so great

Posted by softballmom41 Mar 12, 2010

Well, here we are nearing the end of week three.. and I really struggled this week. I am down 9 pounds now, and it feels great! My clothes feel better, getting a little loose, and love the feeling of getting fit!  I'm not sure why I was so extremely tired this week. It was so hard to get my butt up and get going. I have to admit I didn't make all the days this week. But, the days I did, I knew why.. because it feels good!  I think maybe one reason is because I haven't been sleeping good.  Boy- that sure affects me the next day, and I just 'drag.' I would love any ideas for some 'energy' food. 

     So, nothing super exciting to report on this week. I am sure planning on a much more successful week 4!

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Wow, this week flew by!  But, I have been feeling great and keeping on track.  Little by little, I know I'll get there!  I'm down 8 pounds (wish it was more), but I'll take it!   I just keep telling myself Baby Steps. This time NO going back.  It always amazes me how great it feels when we exercise, and yet so hard to get out and do it at times! It just feels good and keeps me all 'balanced'.   So, between two softball teams, being the coach, Dance, Piano, school activities, church activities, preschool, and just being a mom and wife I think keeping it all together fits my blog post today!

I do find at times that I need a little extra motivation for ME.  I have to remember to keep 'me' at the top of the to-do list.  Like the saying goes..'when momma's happy, everyone's happy!'  And who doesn't love a Happy Family!!  So, keep on pushing through those tough days.  I am so glad for this opportunity, it has been good for me!

 

 

 

 

 

Life may not be the dance we hoped for,

but while we're here, we might as well Dance!

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A 'Rocky' start

Posted by softballmom41 Feb 23, 2010

Well, I was so excited to get going Monday morning.  I actually did some pre- workouts last week and felt great!  Five days last week walking on the treadmill.  But.. my three year old was up sick all night Sunday into Monday and the same last night. Not what I was planning for. So, that had me wiped out for the day, along with piano, softball practice, dinner and so on.  So, I have to say yesterday didn't start out so well.  Today, I had softball practice, which I feel I got out and active. I'm the coach, so I try to get out and moving with the girls.  So far, my meals have been good and I am working on portion control as well.  I hope tomorrow will be a little better.

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Who wants to get active??  I DO!  Well, here I go! I was so excited to be chosen to participate in this great opportunity. Luckily, I stumbled across this from looking into coaching tips on the active website.  I applied, and next thing you know I'm blogging for the first time!      I am 37 years old and live in southern California.  I have three beautiful daughters and a great husband! I am so blessed to be able to stay home and raise my girl's. They are involved in softball, dance, piano, church and school activities. I don't know how I keep up sometimes.  I have realized that I have lost myself and the things that I like to do to keep myself fit.      It's time for mom to get healthy!  It's time for mom to start feeling good about 'mom'.  When I do this, everyone benefits. I know that this program will give me the kick start that I need to be on my way to success!  I was very athletic growing up, and never had weight issues.  I was the thin one!  I love sports and especially softball! Well, as I got older, had kids, and neglected exercise, things didn't look or feel so good anymore. Sure, I've gone on diets and lost weight, but I now realize I need to make it a lifestyle change. Also, when reality hits, it's a little scary!  My father is on his third cancer, has had numerous strokes, diabetes, and most recently open-heart surgery. I need to make changes now! I want to be around for a long time. I want to see my girl's grow up to marry and have children of their own. I want to run and play without the aches and pains.  I love being active and am excited to start this journey. I would love to lose about 65 pounds by the end of the year. But, as for this eight week plan, I want to challenge myself and work hard to achieve a realistic, attainable goal. I look forward to team support, advice, and encouragement along the way!       We can do this!  Let's Rock 'n' Roll!

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