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"We regret to inform the whole of San Diego that, due to building restlessness in our young hearts, we will soon be departing sunny California for the flat, frigid winterscape of Illinois. Although we have thoroughly enjoyed our time here, we both feel we are ready to try something new. The 4 years we spent in San Diego amounted to so much--we learned about a whole new world that we will never forget and will always love! We will be departing at the beginning of February and arrival is TBD. Our roadtrip across the United States has a length yet to be discovered.

We will take no further questions on this matter until more information has been obtained. Thank you for respecting our privacy."

-Tara and Justin Adams

How quickly things change.

The last time I (TARA...NOT Justin) blogged, we were saying goodbye to two friends moving off to Costa Rica. Now, as I write this, we are saying goodbye to ALL of our San Diego friends as we make our way to frigid Chicago.

I'd be lying if I said I wasn't slightly depressed about returning to the midwest. Not only is it hideously ugly at this time of year, it is also extremely depressing and gray. I hate to say this, but as much as I love my roots, I will never LOVE winter, which may cause the majority of our future to be spent in a warm climate somewhere. As a matter of fact, every cell in my body is trying to resist returning to the gray urban sprawl. Alas, Justin and I are a restless pair and, for now, we're ready to try something new!

So, we lasted 4 years in San Diego. Chicago could be shorter, longer, who knows! I have a list of at least 5 other places I want to live (both in AND out of this country!) but for now, this is the right move.

So, until further notice, that's all you're getting. I'm savoring every moment of my last few weeks in shangri-la. Now, here are the answers to some FAQ's:

1. Why are you moving?

Well, we are both horribly sick of our jobs, and we're both young, and we're both childless. So, what better time to hit up something new before we settle down like old grandmas for life?

2. Where will you live? Do you have a place to live yet?

If you haven't figured us out by now, you never will. We like to do things on a whim/at the spur of the moment. So no, we don't have a place to live, and we're not particularly worried about it. (Well, Justin's not. I am, a little. Ain't that the nature of the boy?) But, we're aiming towards River north, the Loop, Lakeview, or Lincoln Park. As long as I can get to the beach fairly quickly and I have room for all my ****, I'm good to go.

3. Do you have jobs?

Again, no, not yet. We've both had numerous interviews...I'm on round 4 at two different companies, and Justin's got companies throwing money at him left and right to fly out for interviews. So, at the risk of sounding cocky, we will probably have numerous jobs. Again, not too worried! Ah, to be young and careless again!

4. Are you insane? Why would you move out of San Diego to come back to THAT?

Although I ask myself daily if we are insane, and at every interview I am also asked if I'm insane (hopefully this is not deterring them from hiring me), i like to believe we are perfectly sane. As previously stated, we just like many different flavors. Besides, if I can't wear a **** pair of boots without sweating, it'll be a good day. And we can always come back.

5. What about your condo?! Didn't you just buy it? Aren't you just settling in?

Yes and no. We did just buy it...two years ago. Yes, time passes that quickly. And, we're still going to own it, because we've already rented it out, to some nice girls from Michigan, incidentally. So, we can come back if we miss it. And if not...you might all be in luck and have a vacation home some day in your future. For now, it's costing us nothing to keep, so why not?!

6. Won't you miss Nicole and Mark? Won't you be so sad?

Yes, of course, but we are trying to recruit them to make the move with us, cause McDonald's headquarters is there and I totally think they'd enjoy -25 degree wind chills. Plus, Mark could totally boat and fish on Lake Michigan. Seriously though, we will visit back and forth forever more, but I do not look forward to saying goodbye with glee.

7. Why did you wait until now to tell us?!

Because we weren't sure until now! But, now that we ARE sure, we're out like a light! Deal with it. You don't always have to know EVERYTHING the minute it's decided. Geez.

8. WHAT ABOUT YOUR CARS?!?! YOUR STUFF!??!!? HOW WILL YOU MOVE?!?!?! WHAT IF YOU GO BANKRUPT!??!?!!?!? HOW WILL YOU GET THERE?!?!

Geez, calm down, will you? You really need to stop panicking. We aren't. We're selling one car, driving the other across the country, and living with only one car, cause....seriously, who needs a car in a city with a well-built mass-transit system? And we have a moving truck coming to load all our **** and drive it across the country for us. It's fine! Chill.

9. Ok, so I think I fully understand. But seriously, what's the real reason you're moving?

OK, I'll be honest. The truth is, we're moving because Justin bought me season tickets to Michigan football as a gift and I obviously wouldn't be able to go to any of the games if I lived here. So we HAD to move SOMEWHERE...close enough to MI but JUST far enough away.

If anyone gets the urge to hit up a game, make sure you call me, cause we will NOT be using all those tickets. But, we will never give them up either. And yes, i can see the jealousy in your eyes. Watch out.

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Jan 23, 2008 4:09 PM Reply Guest Auntie Carol

Well it is no surprise to us that you are taking the plundge into the cold, cold, cold Chicago city life. I recall one visit for a weekend in February when the wind chill was -65. So do we think you are crazy? YES! But we are happy you both will be close enough to visit more often. Have a great trip. If you need help once you get there...call! Love you both. XOXO

Jan 23, 2008 4:17 PM Reply Guest Nicole

You are moving in 2 weeks and THIS is how you tell me? THANKS

Jan 23, 2008 4:30 PM Reply Click to view Trish18's profile Trish18

You'll be moving to this city at the point where the weather should be taking a turn towards the increasingly (though gradually) better. I think this past week was the low-point for this winter. I hope that you are able to see the good things about living in this "great urban sprawl"... it has a ton of things to offer! (I believe my apartment building is in this photo all the way to the right side.

Jan 23, 2008 7:12 PM Reply Guest Danielle

Thanks for the FAQ, it answered everything and I wont bother you with any more questions.
Glad you're moving closer!! I hope the sun follows you on your cross-country drive. Welcome back to the cold & gray... however since you're moving in Feb, you won't have to deal with it for long... just Feb. and March, and the sun will start to come back ;-)

Jan 23, 2008 11:18 PM Reply Guest Marilyn

Tara & Justin - I am beyond thrilled that you are going to be closer! and Tar- I believe I am the one that asked all those panicked questions, but thanks for not pointing that out. Although, I just did! hahaha And thank you for the FAQ's. Brilliant idea - and you covered everything! I think you should follow your hearts, and I wish I had been as brave as you are. Its very exciting! And, I love Chicago!!!! I know I speak for Dad too, but I'll let him write his usual 10 page response.

Jan 24, 2008 10:02 AM Reply Guest Nicole

Wow, everyone is so supportive and excited about your move...except for me & Mark of course and I am pretty sure Trish18 is a little bitter as well. Just so you all know, I have attemted to sabotage the move several times. When they tried to sell Tara's Jeep, I threatened to cut wires so it wouldn't start for the new buyer. When they posted their house for rent, I wanted to get one of the termite tents to put over it so nobody would want to rent it. When Tara told me I was a reference for a new job for her, I made of list of things I would say to sabotage it like how she falls asleep at her desk and steals office supplies. Even with all my evil threats, they are still moving, so I suppose it is time to be supportive now and Chicago is pretty cool, so I GUESS it wouldn't be the worst thing to visit there. I know you will be really happy and it's going to be a great experience for you both, so that is why we are like 50% happy for you. haha Just kidding, we love you guys and wish you all the best! Plus, there's still 2 weeks left to sabotage the plans anyway...

Jan 24, 2008 10:12 AM Reply Click to view Trish18's profile Trish18 in response to: Nicole

I'm not bitter, I just wanted to let them know that when they move here, the coldest part of the year fortunately should be behind us. And I love this city and I hope they enjoy it!

Jan 24, 2008 5:05 PM Reply Guest pamela blevins

Sounds GREAT you two......I lived in number of different places before I settled down like an old grandma in Seattle! I look forward to hearing about your trip across the country.
xo Pamela

Jan 25, 2008 6:38 AM Reply Guest Rula Joseph

Tara and Justin, I am so happy for your new adventure. Let me know when you pack it up for Greece ,France or Italy. I can not wait to visit with your mom. So make sure there is plenty of room for us and a great view of Lake Michigan a couple of walk-in closets and walking distance to shopping and good food , not a problem I hope. Have a wonderful and safe journey and hope to see you soon. Love Rula

Jan 25, 2008 4:57 PM Reply Guest Danielle in response to: Nicole

Nicole, you are so funny. I wont help you sabotage the move, but you could just keep reminding Tara how cold it is over here... I bet it's 65 degrees today and you've got the heat on in your car, right? Well... today was like 13 degrees on my way to work this morning. Just lovely. (today was sunny though)

Jan 26, 2008 8:22 PM Reply Guest wakedevil

I'm very happy for you guys!!!! Follow your hearts and there will never be any regrets!!
Only one problem....Now what football team are you going to follow???? Will you remain a loyal Chargers fan....or do you now take up the Bears???? Much bigger rivalry between Chicago and Detroit. C U on Lake Michigan!!!!.....Tara has always had a desire to be close to Lake Michigan....now she can live there......wow!!!!

Jan 27, 2008 5:53 AM Reply Guest kat

You'll become become used to the cold in no time......it only took me 20 years!!
Now I laugh at those who call this cold! You will too, as you spend your winters in Costa Rica etc. visiting your friends! I propose a place for you to live close to downtown. That way your mom and I will have a place to leave our bags when we are on shopping adventures! ha ha
So glad you picked my favorite city. Nothing like keeping things exciting!! Love you both. K

Jan 29, 2008 8:53 AM Reply Guest Auntie Mary

Great news! Have a safe and fun adventure on your drive to the Windy City!!

Jan 30, 2008 2:54 PM Reply Guest Debbie and Steve Cojei

I'm so jealous too! I love Chicago and Steve and I have always wanted to live there, if we were to ever leave Michigan, which we probably won't. Great city life, changing seasons and fantastic professional sporting events! We have friends in the suburbs as well, all beautiful. I'd like to think that when the kids are grown and out on their own, we'll be retiring and leaving Michigan, ah to dream.... Have fun, enjoy and thanks for the updates. Debbie

Jan 30, 2008 5:24 PM Reply Guest Paula

Can't wait to have you guys closer! :o) It will be so great!

And Chicago is a cool city!

Hope you kept your waaaaarm winter coats and hats though!

Jan 30, 2008 8:18 PM Reply Guest Mari

T&J I was so glad to hear about your plans to move to Chi Town. Now your mom has all these new and improved best friends that will sacrifice their time to accompany her when visiting you. Imagine having to deal with the shopping amazing food views and of course one of the best cultural centers in the midwest. Oh I forgot about the immaculate beaches, concerts and tons of people watching, especially the invasion of gorgeous europeans shopping in the US with their strong dollar. We'll do anything for Marilyn. Good luck to both of you and we'll see you real soon. All my love Mari