im 14, 6' 1", 164 pounds (muscle) and i dont know what position i should or would have to play because i have the defense skills and size of forward or center but i have the handles of a 1 or 2 guard, and id be happy just playing.
You should prob be a small forward. Since ur tall, have post moves, and can handle the ball why not combine them all. At small forward u can either be outside on the perimeter or down in the post.
Your most likely a 3, but it is possible that you could be a swingman (SG and SF) like Kobe Bryant. Also if your only 14, your most likely going to grow quite a bit, probably up to 6'4-6'7, so I'd suggest playing SG or SF, because as you get older, that's what your going to most likely have the size to play.