HI everyone, thanks Mkayc for letting others know of recent event re: hubby's heart attack. I thought I posted it on this thread as well but it didn't go through.
But yes, Monday morning, hubby called, very calm and asking how grandbabies are doing, am I sore from my race day before?, etc....... then, "everything is ok," I'm ok now," ......... I took a deep breath, then he says, "I had a heart attack this morning, but made it to the hospital in time (he drove himself)" ............ I'm stunned
........... I will take next flight I said but he told me to "take your scheduled flight on Thursday, nothing you can do here except waiting around, I'm being taken care of in hospital, take care of grandbabies and daughter" ........... we are both health care providers and have often discussed how freaked out/irrational/dramatic many people become and we tend to stay calm, assess the situation, etc. in crisis situations .............. so I waited, anxiously, till Thursday, we talked a couple times a day, prognosis is good. He spent most of the time in self-reflectiions obviously; he's only 50 yrs old! He knows that both sides of his families are at high risks for heart problems, have had heart surgeries, died from heart attacks, do not have acitve lifestyles, crappy diets, etc. and he was hiking, swimming, healthier diet until we moved to MN ............. he went to the athletic club a few times from the beginning but the hours are inflexible, young kids and families take over the swimming pool, etc. and he just stopped going.
Anyway, he knows he has to re-commit and maintain a healthier lifestyle from now on.
He felt really bad for not staying with his exercise regime but it's never too late to start!
I got home Thursday, LONGEST HUG ever!!
Haven't run since Sunday's trail race but I will be trying out health club for women this afternoon, and maybe I should seriously consider a TM, ugh!!!
We both can utilize it.
All is well now.