Re: going from road bike to tri bike
agree w/ Thor on this. The angle between your upper leg and torso should be about the same as your road bike, if you feel too closed up, you may need to scoot the saddle forward a bit.
It's OK to mess about with your position yourself, take some notes and measurments as you go along, getting some help from a decent shop can save some time, especially if you need to swap out stems or seatpost. For my bike, I had to go through three different stems, two seatposts and a set of aero bars to get the fit right, but it made a difference when I finall got it dialed in a little better. I was just in last week swapping to a slightly lower stem, so it's an ongoing thing.
It's not a position suited for easy to moderate riding, it's for putting the bike in the big chainring and stomping the daylights out of the pedals for 45 minutes and going home, or in your case going for a run. It's no comfort cruiser.