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60 Replies Last post: Mar 21, 2007 7:23 PM by Holly S.   Go to original post 1 2 3 4 5 Previous Next
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45. Mar 20, 2007 9:25 AM in response to: Holly S.
Re: Weightloss Pact - Week 1
Euphoric, so you're trying to move up from "zero" to "loser"?
At first I thought you meant you were a size zero. (Maybe you are.)

Starr, thanks for posting the results. I hope I'm still in the negative zone on Thursday. Yesterday was good, and haven't blown today yet.
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46. Mar 20, 2007 9:54 AM in response to: Holly S.
Re: Weightloss Pact - Week 1
Star... thanks from me too for tabulating. Makes this feel official like. It will help this week. I'd thought there were a lot that said they were in, but hadn't reported. Shouldn't they have to give us something, like shoes, or food?

yay Laurie. Helps to have a little motivation, siŽ?

euphoric, cool your sale luckys fit! which ones? I've looked before but they were all wrong in some way.. re the rules, on the newbie thread we've talked about chucking them. eliz is leading the pack. (your response came across as you intended.)

jem, we can strive for negativity. no goal is to high. (or is that low?)
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47. Mar 20, 2007 11:46 AM in response to: Holly S.
Re: Weightloss Pact - Week 1
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49. Mar 20, 2007 1:23 PM in response to: Holly S.
Re: Weightloss Pact - Week 1
Starr, thanks for the tabulation! It does help... somehow I'd convinced myself I was doing better than that... Oh well, so far so good this week. But I was soooo hungry yesterday! Must not have brought enough good stuff, cuz I was hungry and tired...bad combo.

On the maintenance thing... sounds like what my mom (retired public health nurse) used to call a "metabolic setpoint." Your body would get somewhere, she was convinced a predetermined (genetic?) "perfect weight" where you easily maintained caloric intake and activity to stay put. Well... maybe, mom. I know I was at 132 for a couple of years, would go down to 129 (too skinny) and up to 135, but settle at 132 no matter what I did. Until all of a sudden, I was up 5-8 pounds after a vacation and I've been battling it ever since! Through marathon training, holidays, New Year's resolutions, whatever, they're still there. And so I'm here now! Mainly just trying to get back to what my drivers' license says... which was my old "top weight." DH says I'm silly to worry about it, but I say if you let the first 5 lbs go, then the next 5 stick around ("oh well, it's not that much..."), then the next... and so it goes.

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50. Mar 20, 2007 4:37 PM in response to: Holly S.
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quote:<HR>Originally posted by evanflein:
Starr, thanks for the tabulation! It does help... somehow I'd convinced myself I was doing better than that... Oh well, so far so good this week. But I was soooo hungry yesterday! Must not have brought enough good stuff, cuz I was hungry and tired...bad combo.

On the maintenance thing... sounds like what my mom (retired public health nurse) used to call a "metabolic setpoint." Your body would get somewhere, she was convinced a predetermined (genetic?) "perfect weight" where you easily maintained caloric intake and activity to stay put. Well... maybe, mom. I know I was at 132 for a couple of years, would go down to 129 (too skinny) and up to 135, but settle at 132 no matter what I did. Until all of a sudden, I was up 5-8 pounds after a vacation and I've been battling it ever since! Through marathon training, holidays, New Year's resolutions, whatever, they're still there. And so I'm here now! Mainly just trying to get back to what my drivers' license says... which was my old "top weight." DH says I'm silly to worry about it, but I say if you let the first 5 lbs go, then the next 5 stick around ("oh well, it's not that much..."), then the next... and so it goes.

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Evanflein, You will have a great loss this week, I'm sure. Just stay away from that salt tomorrow! I sure know what you mean about "letting the first 5 pounds go". Four years ago DH and I both lost alot of weight (me, 40 & him 50) and kept it off for a couple of years. Somehow it gradually came back on. Five pounds here after a trip, 5 pounds over the holidays, 5 pounds over the winter. Eventually I was back almost where I started. I've lost 12 pounds since 1/2/07 when I could not even button my fat pants. Now I just have 25 to go to weigh what my Drivers' license says . If only I would have just done something the first time the scale said I weighed more than 150. I'd like to weigh 130 again, but realistically 140-145 is more like it.
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52. Mar 20, 2007 7:37 PM in response to: Holly S.
Re: Weightloss Pact - Week 1
My weight was 140 for the past year when after my surgery, it surged to 155 in a matter of a week. I was sure it was water retention, etc.. how can I gain 15 pounds in a week? Although I lost 5 of those pounds, for some reason, the other 10 have hung around now for about 8 months. I've increased my exercise, watched my calories and even stopped drinking alcohol (well, I did have 1 drink in Feb, but only 1). I still have those same 10 pounds! People say I look great the way I am, and it's not that I don't agree - BUT my wardrobe only fits me when I"m 140 pounds and I just don't want to buy a larger size.

I have to really figure this out asap.

Sherie
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53. Mar 21, 2007 2:06 PM in response to: Holly S.
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Starr - you know you can lose those pounds, because you've done it before! But you also know that it's hard work.

Holly - before I lost weight, I thought that thin people (like you) were naturally thin, didn't have to work at it, and that I was naturally heavy and couldn't be thin (a relative term). Now that I've lost, I know that many of those thin people work very hard at staying that way.

Sherie - I hear ya about the clothes. I got rid of my "fat clothes" and would feel pretty defeated if I had to go out and buy a larger size now. Even so, at about 7or 8 pounds above where I want to be, there are things in my closet that I can't wear. If I could lose those 7 pounds, everything would fit. And about the water after surgery that never went away. Yeah, sometimes things just don't seem to add up. It should make sense but it doesn't.
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54. Mar 21, 2007 2:43 PM in response to: Holly S.
Re: Weightloss Pact - Week 1
jemmama, I hear that all the time "You're so thin, you don't need to worry! You can eat whatever you want!" Well, a large part of why I'm thin is because I worry (and work at it) and I don't eat whatever I want. I think we all have willpower issues and triggers that plague us on a daily basis.
I also love the "you're so lucky you're thin" comment. Luck has nothing to do with it! Hours in the gym, 30+ miles a week, watching my diet, ugh, if only it was luck!
Most people also have an "a-ha" moment where we know we have to do something about our diet/health/fitness. Mine came after birth of son #2, I saw a picture of myself with my sister and baby, and all I could think was "holy cow I'm huge!" That was about 20 lbs ago, so I try to be careful to not let those sly little one-pound-here, 2-pounds-there gains accumulate, but here they are: 5 unwelcome guests who won't go away!

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55. Mar 21, 2007 3:16 PM in response to: Holly S.
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I hear all you people, who get the comments from other people, such as, "Oh, it's easy for you, you're naturally thin, you don't have to work at it," et cetera.

Even though I'm 6'4" and 170 right now, I have been as high as the 190s, and I really do look fat at that weight, because I have a light frame.

I can gain 10-15 pounds quickly, if I eat more, and especially if I stop exercising.

That said, I'm constantly amazed at people--usually women, in my experience--who say, "I can't lose weight, my metabolism is too slow," or make any of several other excuses as to why they are always 10 pounds overweight, or 20 pounds, or 30, or you name it. I think women say this to each other so often, they actually start believing it, in a sort of undeclared conspiracy.

I guarantee, if you reduce your caloric intake, you will lose weight, and there is no mystery or uncertainty about it. Therefore, if you want to lose weight, but you're not, it's purely for psychological reasons, or simple lack of willpower.

I once made a woman furious at me, who was claiming to me that she literally "couldn't" lose weight, because of her metabolism. I said to her, "OK, let's try an experiment. I will lock you in a room, and feed you three controlled meals a day. I guarantee, you will lose weight."

Of course, it wouldn't have been practical to do that, but if we had done it, she would have lost weight: and that was my point. She didn't want to face that reality, because she had created her own reality, and preferred living in it.

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56. Mar 21, 2007 4:25 PM in response to: Holly S.
Re: Weightloss Pact - Week 1
That woman must have wanted to kill you in cold blood. That's an inconvenient truth, indeed. Believing that her metabolism was dysfunctional gave her an out, just like my imagining that thin women never had to try got me off the hook. Obviously we just need to eat less and exercise more. But then we'll be sooooo hungry.....
But I'd rather be hungry than 3 or 4 sizes larger, which is what I was. Must remember that tonight. Thank goodness it's Lent and the best things to eat around here are Lite n Fit yogurt and Kix cereal. Yum, like eating crunchy air.

Hey DH, there's a great idea for a new business when you return to the States - you could run a prison for overweight women.
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57. Mar 21, 2007 4:39 PM in response to: Holly S.
Re: Weightloss Pact - Week 1
quote:<HR>Originally posted by jemmama:
That woman must have wanted to kill you in cold blood.<HR>


jemmama,

Yeah, she did. But she got over it and now she likes me again. I seem to have a knack for infuriating women without really trying. But I win them back with my boyish charm.

quote:<HR>Obviously we just need to eat less and exercise more. But then we'll be sooooo hungry.....<HR>


Yes. I can always tell when I'm losing weight: when I'm lying in bed at night, I have stomach pangs. Fortunately, I don't mind stomach pangs. Some people do.

quote:<HR>Hey DH, there's a great idea for a new business when you return to the States - you could run a prison for overweight women.<HR>


Funny, I once thought of writing a short story about something like that. I'm a little perverse. You must be, too.

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58. Mar 21, 2007 4:48 PM in response to: Holly S.
Re: Weightloss Pact - Week 1
just popping in . . . I'm still hoping to lose my 5 but won't weigh in til the end. I don't have a scale and really don't like weighing in more than once a month anyways.