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36 Replies Last post: Dec 4, 2007 1:55 PM by voq   Go to original post 1 2 3 Previous Next
Click to view Front242's profile Pro 60 posts since
Dec 14, 2007
15. Dec 4, 2007 9:24 AM in response to: tri_coach06
Re: Mife wife is so mean...
why didn't she sign her name instead of writing "your neighbors"? are you the only neighbors? do they know its from you? its kind of like creating a puppet just to criticize someone here. nothing admirable about that, IMHO.
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16. Dec 4, 2007 9:25 AM in response to: tri_coach06
Re: Mife wife is so mean...
quote:<HR>Originally posted by imfl03:
If your nasty, yes. It's a label that you keep for a long time, would that be worth a 10 dollar garbage can?

CS
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Seeing that I tend to not care what other people think of me....and the barrel would now be free to me.... Mmmmmm, I think......Yes! I think it's worth it.
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18. Dec 4, 2007 9:40 AM in response to: tri_coach06
Re: Mife wife is so mean...
quote:<HR>Originally posted by imfl03:
I don't believe you, not for a second. If you didn't care what people thought you wouldn't make animals or be a foster parent, you'd be an arse to everyone and care only for yourself.

CS
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But I do those things cause it makes me feel good and is the right thing to do. Ask Mini, she's known me for a long time now. I think I'm an OK guy, but I really don't care what people think of me. If someone thinks I'm a jerk, it doesn't keep me awake at night.

So, what time will she bringing the free barrel by the house?
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19. Dec 25, 2007 1:30 PM in response to: tri_coach06
Re: Mife wife is so mean...
Personally I don't think it was a nice thing to do....it's not how I would have acted in that situation...if it was a one time deal, why not just go out and help him pick up the trash?



http://This message has been edited by Ripplerun (edited Dec-04-2007).
Click to view monster2077's profile Expert 41 posts since
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20. Dec 4, 2007 9:51 AM in response to: tri_coach06
Re: Mife wife is so mean...
If it wasn't the first time he has done that then, I don't think there is really anything wrong with it. I honestly cannot imagine ever leaving garbage out that long, or in just a bag, or not picking up the mess asap. Those are things that jerky neighbors do!
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21. Dec 4, 2007 10:00 AM in response to: tri_coach06
Re: Mife wife is so mean...
quote:<HR>Originally posted by monster2:
If it wasn't the first time he has done that then, I don't think there is really anything wrong with it. I honestly cannot imagine ever leaving garbage out that long, or in just a bag, or not picking up the mess asap. Those are things that jerky neighbors do! <HR>


Maybe he just found out he has cancer or he had to put a beloved pet down or he has financial troubles on him mind. Maybe he simply wasn't thinking clearly. Why ostracize him and make him feel like an a$$hole over something so inconsequential?
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22. Dec 4, 2007 10:04 AM in response to: tri_coach06
Re: Mife wife is so mean...
Heh, I hate it when all of that happens, repeatedly... At least now he doesn't have to worry about getting a can, his nice neighbor bought him one! That's pretty thoughtful if you ask me!
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23. Dec 4, 2007 10:06 AM in response to: tri_coach06
Re: Mife wife is so mean...
quote:<HR>Originally posted by monster2:
Heh, I hate it when all of that happens, repeatedly... At least now he doesn't have to worry about getting a can, his nice neighbor bought him one! That's pretty thoughtful if you ask me!<HR>


Then it should have been presented to him in a thoughtful manner...in person or with a thoughtful note...it wasn't presented in a thoughtful manner it was presented in a spiteful manner.

The title of this thread is "my wife is so mean".
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24. Dec 4, 2007 10:08 AM in response to: tri_coach06
Re: Mife wife is so mean...
quote:<HR>Originally posted by Ripplerun:
Then it should have been presented to him in a thoughtful manner...in person or with a thoughtful note...it wasn't presented in a thoughtful manner it was presented in a spiteful manner.

The title of this thread is "my wife is so mean".

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26. Dec 4, 2007 10:13 AM in response to: tri_coach06
Re: Mife wife is so mean...
quote:<HR>Originally posted by imfl03:
He has none of the above. His dog routinely sh1ts in my yard. He went to work yesterday and the neighborhood know it all hasn't said anything about cancer.

We live on a nice little street. It's clean and the yards ar pretty well kept. His trash is gross and I don't want to drive past it or pick it up.

If he did it once, twice I would have let it go, and I have. This was the straw that broke the camals back.

Now we have straws and icing.

CS
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Nothing like paying it forward.
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27. Dec 4, 2007 10:16 AM in response to: tri_coach06
Re: Mife wife is so mean...
Just curious - whose cats got into the trash? Yours, the neighbor's or just some neighborhood cats? In my county (and in yours too, I suspect) dogs aren't allowed to roam off-leash because they get into 1) traffic, 2) people, and 3) trash. I wonder if leash laws apply to cats too. Sometimes I wish they did.

I am not saying that your neighbor should have put his trash out 2 days early, btw.
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29. Dec 4, 2007 12:54 PM in response to: tri_coach06
Re: Mife wife is so mean...
quote:<HR>Originally posted by imfl03:
I don't believe you, not for a second. If you didn't care what people thought you wouldn't make animals or be a foster parent, you'd be an arse to everyone and care only for yourself.

CS
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This is one of the saddest statements I've ever read on this board, and that is saying a lot.