JR007, we understand that we don't "need" iPods to run road races; we chose to run with iPods. And I agree that people have been running long before the advent of iPods; I was one of these runners. If you have been running for some time, you must also acknowledge how the iPod has helped our sport to grow. In the New England area there are loads of races every Saturday and Sunday with a good number of participants registering and racing at all different skill levels; much/some of this increase is because of the iPod, which has influenced folks to get out and run.
But please help me to understand this whole "social aspect" point of view. I've run over a hundred races from marathons, HM's and 10Ks. One thing they all have in common as far as camaraderie is that runners socialize at pre-race Expo's (except 10K's that may or may not have an Expo), while we warm up, at the very start of the race - wishing those nearby good luck - and the end of the race; very few people that I see carry on conversations during the entire race.
Moreover, this "social aspect" is overrated. This is a race after all; who hasn't picked up their pace towards the finish line to pass some runner(s) or been passed. Just last year I slowed 10 feet from the finish line for a woman in front of me who was joined by her child to run across the finish line together; as a result two runners passed me and I was upset with myself for letting it happen.
For myself, I'm busy trying to focus and concentrate on my game plan during each road race, setting a good pace, making good strides, proper breathing, taking liquids, enjoying my surroundings, acknowledging folks who came out to cheer and watch the race, etc. Although the pace of my long training runs allow me to talk to a companion, I have to admit that I savor every breathe during road races and would not be able to carry on a conversation without having to slow my pace. I socialize before and after, not during.
My last point is you are wrong when you state if someone wants to wear an iPod during a road race that they are "basically" allowed to. The USATF has banned these devices during road races and many races strictly enforce this rule. Sure a runner can hide their device and put it on after the start, but there are many blogs that discuss how other runners are turning in runners who wear an iPod at water stations on the course. Probably the same individuals who volunteered for hall monitor in school. The point is they are not allowed, which is the reason there are so many forums on this topic; but I'm certain you already know this.
Here's a bit of running history, not long ago marathon runners mocked the half-marathon, now it is a staple included with almost every marathon.
I still have not read a good explanation for why non-iPod wearers are so offended by those runners who want to listen to music or a good audio book while they run a road race; after all we are not offended by their decision not to
want to wear an iPod.
I've said enough.