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Sep 10, 2007 11:34 AM

20s - Monday

Morning 20s.


Ugh, there are a lot of spam posts on the forum this morning. I hope they ban that guy soon, because this is ridiculous.

I don't have much of anything to report today, I had a fairly lazy weekend because Disaster Recovery wasn't feeling well. I spent a good portion of my weekend serving as caretaker.

Today I'm planning on going for a 3 mile run at lunch. I've got all my gym stuff so I should be good to go.

I hope everyone had a good weekend!

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1. Sep 10, 2007 12:12 PM in response to: crexion
Re: 20s - Monday
Unfortunately, as soon as they block him he'll just log in with a new name... it is annoying, though.

This weekend was a very lazy, sports-filled weekend for me - kind of sad, given how beautiful it was outside all weekend. On the sports front, we watched men's semis & women's finals of the US Open on Saturday, followed by the Nascar race. (Confetti, does it drive you nuts that 99 almost always has the fastest car and ends up getting screwed by circumstance? Oh well, at least Tony Stewart didn't win.)

Sunday I got up early for a run that was okay but not great - I got two killer stitches in my side that forced me to walk for a bit. Then we went to the bar to watch the Steelers tear the Browns a new one - always a happy day for me and then raced home to watch Roger Federer be, well, Roger Federer. No surprises there. BTW, any other tennis fans here? I'm wondering if it's a Serbian thing, because Djokovic & Jankovic are both about the best sports I've seen in the game of tennis - both laughing and joking with the audience, being extremely gracious when they lose ... it was nice to see that for a change.

So, in a nutshell, I didn't get much done this weekend I baked my first loaf of sourdough/artisan bread, and it turned out all right for a first try. I overproofed it before baking and it fell a bit, and I overdid it on hydration - almost an English Muffin texture - but all in all a decent crumb and wonderful flavour. I made lots of notes and I'll try again next weekend.

MNF planned for tonight - I think I'll try to do a little bit of weights when I get home, too. I'm hoping to run T/Th/Sa, maybe Sunday to if I'm feeling good.

Crex: Sorry DR isn't feeling well - she's been sick for a while now, hasn't she? I hope all is okay. BTW, how do you run at lunch? I would spend the afternoon red-faced and sweaty, even if I had a shower at hand... tips would be nice
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2. Sep 10, 2007 12:27 PM in response to: crexion
Re: 20s - Monday
Morning 20s,

Well the raw food diet starts today and already I am having a rough morning. I can't have caffeine and although I only have a cup of iced chai tea in the morning, I am REALLY grumpy right now without it. We'll see how it goes for a couple of days. I ate a handful of almonds before heading out the door with the dog this morning for a 7 miler. After we got back I really wanted some gatorade but I had water and watermelon instead. I packed raw almonds, raw sunflower seeds and dried mango for my snacks today. Lunch will be a huge salad and carrots. Breakfast was cashew butter on flaxseed crackers (no jelly---- ).


Anyway, this weekend was pretty uneventful. I ran 6 miles Saturday morning. THen we took Chloe to her first obediance class. She did fine. Saturday afternoon we ran a few errands and vegged. Sunday morning was my long run (12 miles). After an ice bath (and shower) DH and I went out to a dinner for a late breakfast. We figured we'd better get some meat, potatoes, and eggs because we won't be eating any of that for the next month! I took a very long nap yesterday afternoon, then did school work while DH studied (and studied and studied).

Today is some lifting after school.

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5. Sep 10, 2007 12:40 PM in response to: crexion
Re: 20s - Monday
Hey 20's,

I had a good weekend. I ran 12 miles on saturday then did a bunch of random errands and hung out with some friends. Sunday I went scuba diving in lake michigan. It was pretty cool. We saw 3 wrecks although the site where the last 2 were was not great visibility... maybe 10-15 feet. The first site had 20-25 feet. Coldest water temp was 66 degrees so it wasn't as bad as I expected. I have a few pictures I might post when I get a chance. I just bought an underwater housing for my camera so I was testing it out.

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6. Sep 10, 2007 1:10 PM in response to: crexion
Re: 20s - Monday
Hello,

No real workouts this weekend. DH was home and that was nice. I tried a new recipe. It was penne in a creamy tomato vodka sauce. It was wonderful. We didn't even have leftovers. That's definitely a recipe I'm keeping around.

The worst part of the weekend was Saturday morning. My mom called and told me they had to put thier dog down that morning. We were expecting it, but it's still hard. He was a great dog. They found a tumor that had started in his nasal passages and he just deteriorated fast. He pretty much lost his sight, sense of smell, had no idea who my parents where and lost control of his bodily functions all within about 2 weeks. It will be hard visiting and not having him greet us. My mom used to tell him whenever we were coming to visit and he'd wait by the door for us. Even if we arrived at 2am (which happens fairly often) he was waiting and happy to see us. I'm going to miss him.



Our trip to IL is back on. We'll be heading up there next weekend. I'm really looking forward to that. I want to check out some rental places around Milwaukee. My mom is taking a day off work so she can hang out with DS and me. I'll get to see a couple of my friends while I'm up there too. Just lots to look forward to.

The weather is gorgeous right now. It's a little cloudy, but it's only about 70 degrees. I have the windows open for the first time since May or June. It's wonderful!

julie: Wow. Good luck with your diet. I don't think I could handle that. I just love cooking too much.

mh: congrats on the sourdough! I have a question. Do you use the whole starter or just part of it when you make the dough? I've read a couple recipes and niether specified and I was confused.

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8. Dec 25, 2007 8:45 PM in response to: crexion
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Hey all. I can't believe it's only been just a regular-length weekend since I was last at work! It's been a l-o-n-g couple days!

I had that relay race out in Pennsylvania this weekend. So Saturday, I jumped behind the wheel of a car for the first time in almost 2 years. Ugh. It all went pretty smoothly, but suffice to say I won't mind at all if it's not another two years till I have to drive again! I just don't enjoy it at all.

So yeah, I got out to my brother's in-law's house around 6p.m. We "watched" the Notre Dame game ... in quotations marks because the volume was off for most of the game and they turned the TV off entirely during dinner. (I come from a family that never ate dinner with the TV on ... the one and only exception being Notre Dame football!!!) And then everybody goes to bed. It's 10p.m. at this point. I don't go to bed at 10p.m. So I went upstairs and read my book for 2.5 hours. Then I tried to sleep, but I pretty much spent the entire evening tossing an turning. Finally got out of bed at 5:15a.m. for this race, a little food and coffee, and we're on our way.

Long story short ... not the greatest run of my life. I was extremely tired from not getting any sleep, I'm not in the greatest shape ever, and I had massive cramps (TMI alert: not the running kind). Also, I'm loathe to be too critical of races because I realize that I'm fortunate that all but maybe two of the races I run each year are organized by the New York Road Runners Club, which has a sizable, full-time, paid staff, so they're pretty impeccably organized and supported. But at the same time, this race cost $150 per team, and I feel like there's a certain level of professionalism that races that charge that much need to meet. There weren't enough aid stations, the mile markers were wrong, they'd changed the length of some of the legs at the 11th hour (unbeknownst to me, my 6.1 mile leg had become a 6.5 mile leg, which led to a little panic when I passed the 6 mile marker and could neither hear nor see the finish), and there was absolutely zero support at the end of each leg. Fortunately the person who picked me up had brought a bottle of water for me.

At any rate though, my team ended up finishing 38th overall out of 130 teams and 8th in our division (Men's Open -- I guess you had to have at least two women to make it into the Mixed, and we had only me). So not bad at the end of the day, but not a satisfying race experience by any means.

Moving along though, I hopped in the car after my leg and headed back to the city. Got back in under 2 hours, dropped off the car at the rental place, charged home to change my clothes, and was able to relax on my couch for an entire 10 minutes before Paul picked me up to go to his Irish football championship game. Unfortunately, his team lost, and it was a very frustrating game. Tons of fouls, and some dirty playing, too, away from the ball. (There's only one referee in Irish football, so it's easy to get away with stuff.) But yeah, Paul's team looked like the better team for the entire first half, but just couldn't put points on the board, and then they gradually fell apart in the second half. So that was disappointing.

After the game, Paul and I stuck around Gaelic Park to watch some of the other games that were going on that afternoon, have a couple drinks, and just enjoy the nice day outside. Which was really fun. Irish football is seriously one of the best live sports I've ever seen, and it's especially fun to watch it with Paul, because he can fill in some of the gaps in my knowledge about the sport. (He also says "whoooooops" whenever something goes wrong on the field, which makes sense when someone bobbles a ball or something, but is hilariously inappropriate when he's whoopsing some guy getting brutally slammed into the ground or something. I just think it's very cute! )

The final game of the day ended around 6p.m., and we jumped into the car and headed over to pick up a friend whom Paul had offered to drive to the airport -- which unfortunately was Newark airport out in New Jersey rather than JFK where we we both live in Queens. So since we were in Jersey, we decided to stop by a bar that Paul's friend owns out there. Then we went around the corner to grab a slice of pizza at this place ...



... which Sopranos fans might recognize from the opening credits. So that was kind of entertaining!

We started heading back to the city, and on the way, Paul got a call from one of his teammates, demanding his presence at a bar. We get there, and it appears that his entire football team has been there since the game ended around 3p.m., judging by how massively intoxicated a good number of them were! We got talking to some guys and got a little sucked into the Giants game, so we ended up having a couple beers, but good lord. Right about when we were leaving, some song came on the jukebox that is apparently the Piano Man of the Irish in New York, because these quite impressively intoxicated boys start climbing up on barstools and singing this thing at the tops of their lungs. One guy actually fell off his barstool (he landed on another guy, so nobody was particularly injured) which got everybody else back down on the ground, and now they've got their arms around either other, drunkenly swaying across the bar, crashing into things and knocking things over. But whatever. They're the Irish in New York, and they're singing what's apparently their anthem, so I thought it was kind of nice, and this was a big football bar, so I imagine they're used to this sort of thing happening ... But I guess all this touchy brotherhood got these boys feeling somewhat drunkenly mushy about each other, because then Gwen Stefani comes on the jukebox with that annoying song she's got out right now, and they're still all arms around each other, singing the song, and swaying along with the music. I just thought it was completely hilarious. All these big football guys, dancing with each other and singing Gwen Stefani. Not a woman in sight. Too funny.

But yeah. Paul and I were both about a case of beer away from the intoxication level that these boys had achieved, so it was time for us to go. I think we got back to my place a little after midnight ... Just a very long, very fun day, but neither of us was particularly thrilled when morning rolled 'round, lemme tell ya!

mh1982: I've got all the sports you mentioned watching this weekend DVR'd, so they're what I'll be watching every night this week, probably!

julie: Oooof. Good luck with that diet. I don't think I'd last two hours on it, let alone the whole month!

proto: Definitely post those pics if you can! I'd love to see them!

jrpol: I'm so sorry about your dog! It's been a long time since I've lost a pet, but it is just sad and weird getting used to them not being around. Blah. I'm glad that you're at least getting to head back to IL though -- I'm sure it will be nice to spend some time with your family and friends!

Okay! I literally started writing this at 11a.m., and it's been interruptions ever since, so I'm going to post this while I can!

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9. Sep 10, 2007 2:31 PM in response to: crexion
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crex: Thanks. I know it was the right thing too. He was an 11 year old lab and he had a good life.

Friday afternoon I tried to get DS's hair cut. It was a total fiasco. Not only was DS difficult, but by the time we left my hormones (I'm blaming them) got the best of me. DS wouldn't let us cut his hair. Nothing worked. He threw the mother of all fits. He was screaming, kicking, shaking his head. I was totally unable to hold him still. When we finally gave up, he didn't want to hold my hand and darted away from me, so I had to get him and he got mad all over again. I was already mad and frustrated so this didn't help. By the time I got him in his car seat, I sat in the car and cried. I don't mean that I frustrated and a few tears came. I mean I put my head on the steering wheel and balled like a baby....all because I didn't get DS a haircut! in retrospect I probably looked like a lunatic, and a 2 year old's haircut is a dumb thing to cry over but I couldn't help myself. So yeah...I'm blaming hormones and laughing about it now.

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10. Sep 10, 2007 2:49 PM in response to: crexion
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Jen - I'm sorry to hear about the dog - it's always so hard, but at least you know it was what was best for him. I know that doesn't really make it any better, but still.

As for the bread, the wonderful thing about starter is that every time you feed it it grows - to the extent that you often have to throw some away to avoid having it take over your kitchen! I fed the starter (all of it) and left it out overnight. On Saturday morning I took 1/2 cup of the activated starter and tossed the rest back into the fridge (I probably have close to 2 cups of starter at any given point in time, so enough to make several loaves of bread w/o running out of starter). I used the 1/2 cup to make a poolish (sponge) w/ flour & water and let that sit in the warm kitchen for about 8 hours, after which point it had grown significantly and was frothy/bubbly. Then I made the dough and let it rise about 2 hours, then shaped it and let it proof about an hour more, then baked it. So, it was kind of a long process, but I guess it can take much, much longer. It was fun, though - I have a big sourdough book coming to me in the mail soon, so I'm looking forward to experimenting with that, too.

oh, and I just saw your post about DS's "haircut"... I'd say the hormones are a good focus of blame - glad you can laugh about it now!

proto: Good run, and I'm envious!!! of your diving. Even if it was in cold water. I haven't dived in four years now, which is kind of sad

confetti: Paul & his friends sound like quite the entertainment. BTW, I hope I didn't ruin the end of any of those sporting events for you.
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11. Dec 25, 2007 8:45 PM in response to: crexion
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Hi 20s!

I dropped in to give a Reach the Beach update - I decided to run on it the next day and what do you know? My leg started hurting again. So it's a no go and I'm a bit disappointed.

In other news, this weekend was my best friend's wedding and I was her maid of honor. It was such an emotionally and physically exhausting weekend and I'm feeling really anxious about it all. It was beautiful and I'm so happy for my friend (we'll call her friend A since I'm mentioning her first) and even her crazy MIL was pretty well-behaved. However another friend (who I'll call B) has me pretty frazzled. Now I love her and we've been friends for years but she's always been one of those people who just get under my skin easily, just irritates me very quickly and I'm almost always relieved to say bye whenever we hang out. She's also a huge flirt with all her friends' boyfriends, husbands, etc. - you can probably see where this is going. A little backstory - B used to flirt with another of our other friend's husbands and I always felt like she was totally crossing the line, but that it also wasn't my business. One example was at one of the parties before their wedding, B walked over to the other girl's fiance, plopped herself into his lap, proceeded to put her arms around him, kiss his face, and tell everyone that he was her boyfriend. And both of their extended families and friends were there to witness this. Maybe I'm old fashioned or something, but to me that was innappropriate and I felt so embarassed for the girl whose fiance it was (I also wanted to smack him for not dumping B on the floor or asking her to stop).

Anyway so fast forward to more recent events and she's progressively flirting with Fight Club more and more. It didn't bother me at first when it was just a comment here and there (plenty of my friends do that), I was just glad to see my friends getting along with him. The thing is that I honestly don't think anything is going to happen between them, neither of them are shady like that. But it seems like everything she says to him lately is flirty or downright lewd and she's so touchy-feely. It's definitely behavior I would never pull, whether Fight Club was there to witness it or not. Anyway B always starts it, though he plays along or laughs along. And I haven't said anything because I don't want to come off clingy or suspicious. But this weekend she was so out of control and it really bugged me. Then to make it worse, she was maknig suggestive comments and was hanging on him in front of my parents and I definitely caught my Father raising his eyebrow after getting an eyeful and an earful. It was mortifying. My parents' opinion means a lot to me and I really care that they like Fight Club and recognize our relationship for what I generally think it is (which is pretty great).

So before bed last night, Fight Club said I seemed distant all day and wanted to make sure he hadn't done anything to cause it. I told him that wasn't it, honestly I wasn't ready to talk about it since I was still very upset and also embarassed about being upset in the first place. So now I have to say something to both of them because at the very least they have to tone it down in front of my family. The thing is, I've always been very upfront about my conservative views regarding relationships (and innappropriate - even if innocent - behavior) and also about my jealousy issues. So to add to being upset and embarassed, I'm also annoyed that I even have to explain (to 2 people who supposedly know me so well) that I think the sexual comments and touchy-feelyness is inappropriate.

OH and I forgot the icing on the cake - my best friend ended up in tears on her own wedding night because B wouldn't stop flirting with her new husband. She couldn't even give that one a break on their freaking wedding night... Another bridesmaid left the after party in a huff for similar reasons. B has to be the center of attention at all times, which is weird to me because she's a cute enough girl that I don't get why she seems so starved for attention all the time.

Anyway so now I need to address this and take care of it calmly and quickly because the holidays are coming up and I don't intend to spend them sulking. I'm just afraid of getting really upset and blowing the whole thing out of proportion. Do I sound completely unreasonable? Honestly, please tell me if I do!

julie - Definitely let us know how the raw food diet goes! I'd love to drop a few of the extra few pounds I've racked on over the last 8 or 9 months.

jrpol - I'm so sorry about the dog! My parents put our dog to sleep during my senior year of college and even though I knew it was coming and it was for the best, I cried my eyes out. And please don't take offense but your story about crying after the DS-hair-cut-that-wasn't really made me laugh. I was so emotionally and physically exhausted after this weekend that I balled my eyes out as soon as Fight Club dropped me off.

Confetti - Reach the Beach has some poorly marked legs too, so annoying. That really stinks about the lack of support. Hopefully your irish serenade made up for it a little.

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13. Sep 10, 2007 4:50 PM in response to: crexion
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elfitzpa: You're NOT way off base. I commend you on your ability to not say anything, to step back and reflect. I totally don't have that ability. I tend to react and think about it later. Even if I didn't say anything to B, I'd totally have said something to my guy. I think the fact that other people had the same problem is just proof that it's not OK.

Oh, and I'm not offended at all. After it happened I called my mom and told her and we had a good laugh over it. We compared it to the "smoked sausage incident" (which isn't as bad as it might sound)

A long time ago, things were really stressful in our family. It had been building up for a while and finally something set my mom off. It was the dumbest, smallest thing ever and she cried so hard. I was in high school, my brother in grade school. We were supposed to have smoked sausage with dinner, but my mom forgot to defrost it. That was it. She came home, realized the sausage was still frozen and broke down in hysterics. My brother and I thawed it quickly and kept saying "it's Ok mom, dinner is fine." but by that time she couldn't stop crying. Whenever anything small sets us off we always compare it the "smoked sausage incident".

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14. Sep 10, 2007 5:20 PM in response to: crexion
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elfizpa:

I agree, you're totally on target with the Friend A/B situation. I'm wondering if Fight Club was just going along with it because she's a good friend of yours (your words). I know if one of my BF's friends was flirting with me and he was there and didn't say it (or give me "that look"), I would be kind of surprised/confused that he thought it was okay. Granted, I would have done something about it, but I think men are less likely to tell a girl to stop flirting with them than vice versa (big generalization - sorry, gentlemen).

Anyway, I think Jen was right when she said you should talk to Fight Club, at least if you're going to be hanging out with her again anytime soon. If he noticed that you were distant/upset and was sweet enough to make sure it wasn't something he had done (I thought that was cute, btw), and he knows that you are "conservative" about relationships, I think he would understand.

Btw, not thinking girls should throw themselves at every other girl's significant other isn't being conservative, it's being appropriate. I agree with Jen, again, that I would not have been nearly so self-possessed in that situation.

Jen: I think we all have a breaking point sometime. When I was in HS my dad got sick for about a month and no one knew what was wrong with him - it was right around xmas, too. He wasn't in the hospital or anything; it was kind of like mono. Well, my mom got home from the grocery store while I was wrapping presents and started emptying the groceries, when she realized that she had picked up a bag with a pie in it by the handles, and the entire pie had smushed out of the pan. She did the same thing - started bawling and locked herself in the bathroom for an hour or two. Turned out that my dad had some weird form of walking pneumonia caused by a mysterious mold allergy - they basically said "take these pills, and if you get better, we'll know what's wrong, and if you don't, we won't have a clue". Luckily, he got better