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Nov 24, 2007 10:44 AM

Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?

Hello! I am a 48 year old, overweight (200lbs, 5'9) female that woke up yesterday and decided it's time to get off my fat @ss and DO SOMETHING! I have a myriad of health issues, but a few months ago my doctor said none of them should restrict me, in fact some exercise may get rid of a lot of the issues.

I had thyroid cancer 2 years ago and my thyroid was removed. Medication adjustments still caused me to gain 40+ pounds in that time. I have SEVERE plantars issues. High blood pressure and a stress level over an ex-husband and 2 teenagers that would kill most people! hahaha!!!

I have NO idea where to start. Or who to ask. I belong to Lifetime Fitness and visit them religiously once a month whether I want to or not. I sought out a trainer and they pretty much blew me off. Guess you need to be prettier and skinnier to get any attention there.

I guess I'm really just wondering the best place to turn to for support. Could I realistically enter the TC marathon in October? Or should I set a goal for 2009 instead? I'm motivated right now, but not hugely. I have no support system at home for this challenge. When I mentioned it to my kids, they both laughed and walked away.

Where do I start? Who do I cry to? How do I find a "buddy" that might be started as well?

Thanks for any help you can offer!
Lori.
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1. Nov 24, 2007 11:00 AM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Welcome to CR, Lori. You very well may have come to the right place. Many of us post here to share experiences, both good and bad, and find inspiration as we all try to become more healthy and fit.

There are many stories on these boards from people who started out heavier than you and with health and personal challenges as well. The good news is that you seem motivated and have reached a point where you want to start and hopefully can stay with it. Consistency is the key, maybe more so than anything else when it comes to running and exercise.

Patience is going to be very, very important as you get started. The Couch to 5K program on this site (C25K for short) is a great program to get started gradually and prevent injuries and there are always threads on these boards where people are sharing their experiences as they work through the program. You'll see posts like W2D5 (week 2, day 5) and you can know that is someone working through the C25K.

This board is no substitute for a people around you but it can augment the rest of your support structure (hopefully you're in a good church that provides some emotional support as well).

Virtual buddies are a good start until you find someone else in your area that you might be a running buddy.

As for the marathon in October, that might be possible but you are probably better off with some near term and more moderate goals. How about a 5K in March and a 10K in May? From there you can see how you feel, what kind of distances you enjoy, and look towards setting some other goals. Maybe you'll be inspired by one of the runs that donate towards cancer treatment and recovery.

Think about how great it will feel when your kids see your commitment and determination turn into results.

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2. Nov 24, 2007 11:16 AM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Lori,
You start out slow, baby steps!! The couch to 5k program is great to a running program but if you have not had any exercise in a while, I would like to suggest a good walking program first. I probaby walked for 4 months before I started the couch to 5k program and it really helped me. You can do this!! You just have to want it bad enough! I agree, don't set your goals so high, setting a goal of completing a 5k in the spring of 2008 sounds just about right. Don't set yourself up for failure. Enjoy the journey to a healthy life style. Barb
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3. Nov 24, 2007 11:28 AM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Yes, join us. Take it slowly. And as far as the laughter you received upon announcing your goal, know this: those folks cannot be counted upon to provide you with support in this area. Please do not set yourself up to be disappointed by trying again to get their support. They will only let you down.

I announced to my father 2 days after I quit smoking that I had quit. He laughed in my face. It has now been over 2 years since that day and I haven't picked up a smoke since then. I do not get any support from him for having quit. I found it from others, many others in my life.

Please don't think that I'm saying I don't get support in other ways from him. I do. Just not when it comes to having a smoke-free life.

So, run on. Take it slowly. Get a good pair of shoes and make yourself, your personal goals, a priority. You can do it. And welcome to the board!

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4. Nov 24, 2007 11:32 AM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Cool Running is a very nice, supportive place. I would also second the suggestion to start walking. People who are in their 40s, who have not exercised in a while, and who have a sedentary job should really start SLOW. This ensures you have a positive, injury-free beginning. I started by walking a half mile, and then going from there. Then I gradually started running/walking.

It is best to start by exercising doing three days a week, no more. Conversely, don't just try to run on the weekend when you have more time (my husband does this and I'm trying to encourage him to 3 days/wk).

Be sure to stretch. Extra credit if you do strengthening exercises.

Susan
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5. Nov 24, 2007 12:15 PM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Welcome, Lori. It sounds to me like you've definitely come to the right place!

As others have already said, best to start slow. Though I'm no expert, it seems to me that a walking program, then Couch-to-5k would be a good way to approach the next six or so months. After that, maybe One Hour Runner or one of the Hal Higdon programs. (Hal Higdon has several training programs designed to get you ready to run races/distances of various lengths.)

The main things to remember with these programs are that you can't go too slow, and it takes time for your body to adapt to all of this new wear-and-tear. Don't push things too fast -- a marathon in October is very ambitious. Also, from what I've been reading, a marathon is as much (more?) mental than it is physical. I've been running for about six months and I'm looking at 2009 for a marathon -- maybe.

As for those who laughed at you? Every time you run another step, that's one more than they've taken. There are lots of great people here, and you'll get lots of support. There are new Couch-to-5k groups starting every week; consider joining one of them. It's a great way to share your experiences with others who are at the same point in their training.

Good luck to you, and we'll keep an eye out for you on the boards (and roads!).

Don
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6. Nov 24, 2007 12:18 PM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Everyone has offered great suggestions, including to take it slow, start out by walking, and not exercising more than 3 days a week.

And, while I am sure you would be able to do TC next October if you took your training nice and easy and were consistent, I would recommend making that a 2009 goal.

If you have two year's of training under your belt, the marathon will be that much easier, you will enjoy it more, and (this is the most important), you will want to continue running afterwards. (I have seen too high of a percentage of first year marathoners who are no longer running.)

Stay on this board for all of the great support and encouragement everyone on it provides, check out the RRCA (Road Runner's Club of America) website to see if there are any member running clubs in your part of Minnesota so you could find a local running support group, and if you need help your plantar facitis (another reason to take it slow and not have TC as a 2008 goal) other running injuries or any specifics about actually training, or stretching, feel free to email me at 4runners @ merr.com (anyone else can too, just include some words that are running specific in the subject area).

For the past 10 years, I have been teaching a beginning running class in (neighboring Wisconsin) to about 70 or 80 adults, about 80% female, so can help you along when you have those inevitable low points.

If there is a mall nearby, you could use that in the morning to walk in.

When you do start out running, the C25K program is excellent(and don't be afraid to repeat weeks), or I have a similar one. Also, during the running portions, run slow enough so that you can still talk out loud (and do so occasionally, even if noone else is there). That will keep you from getting too sore where you don't feel like running the next time, and will help prevent injuries too.

Marty
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7. Nov 24, 2007 12:58 PM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Thank you so much for your support and great advice. I'm really touched.

I have funny visuals of me doing the CT5K at the healthclub. jog-walk-jog-walk....But if it helps me to reach my goal, then who cares what I look like. Healthclubs (especially in the suburbs where I live) are especially scary for someone that doesn't fit into the "young firm and beautiful" crowd. A few months ago, I had some brats (I cleaned that up) say "give it up whale" when they walked by me. Now of course there is that off chance that they were talking about a beached whale on the New England coast, but I doubt it.

At this point in my learning, is it SUPER important that I invest in a GREAT pair of shoes? I have some runners now, but with my PF, no shoe feels good, ever. I usually wrap my ankle and heel whenever I attempt walking and that helps.

So what I'm hearing from all of you is that a marathon in 11 months is a lofty goal. But perhaps a half marathon would be better? Personally, I'd he happy to be able to fun up the stairs and not get winded. I think I'll start there. Thanks again!

Oh, and any advice on a REALLY good sports bra? I've tried many and the "girls" are always quite miserable. Perhaps I'm buying them too big?
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8. Nov 24, 2007 2:04 PM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Welcome, Lori!

You've received excellent advice from everyone else - I second everything that's already been mentioned. So on to some new stuff:

Shoes - yes, yes, yes, get the best ones for you and get them properly fitted at a specialty running store. They are definitely an investment that you need to make in yourself. This may be almost as scary as going to the gym, but if you find the right store, they will treat you with respect and will help you immensely. My first trips to a running store near me were a nightmare. I felt like such an imposter there; as if they were thinking that since I didn't already look like I runner, I'd never become one in my old and overweight state. Since then, I've found a fantastic store where I'm treated well and get great advice on shoes, fit, etc. I still get such a boost from going there because there's never a doubt that I'm a runner when I talk to the folks there.

This is especially important since you already have PF. Make sure you're stretching and taking care of that religiously.

If you start with walking, sports bras shouldn't be too much of an issue, but once you do start running, you'll definitely want to invest in and get fitted for good bras, too. I've found great success in ordering running bras from Champion online. Was able to figure out which style and size to wear from the web site. I'm big on Champion because they run great sales twice a year - all bras 19.99 - in the spring and fall. You should be able to get fitted for a running bra at a specialty running store as well.

I started running almost 2 years ago (at age 45, way overweight) when a shoulder injury seemed like it would end my being able to kayak. Every step hurt for about the first 3 months because my shoulder was such a mess. I'm still ridiculously slow, but I've gained so much from running that now I can't imagine not doing it. And the shoulder's better, too, so I can run AND kayak in the summer.

Stick around at CR - it's an amazing source of inspiration!

Eliz
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9. Nov 24, 2007 2:21 PM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Hi Lori...I used to hang here alot several years ago but turned into a major slacker the past several years. I've given myself a new name here as I'm trying to get back into the groove. I started C25K this week and will do W1D3 tomorrow. Like everyone has already said--take it slowly and go from there. I don't get alot of support around my house either (no laughing thank goodness but the wife gives me the blank stare when I talk running) and I would love to buddy up with here and through email to help each other along. Take care and good luck--you CAN do it!!!!!

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10. Nov 24, 2007 3:15 PM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Hi Lori,

I'm older than you, and was also overweight when I started running about 6 months ago. I have also had thyroid cancer and know what it's like to try and get your med level right. Also, lots of feet problems which were finally made much better with custom orthotics and weight loss.

Part of my reason for starting was the "endearing" comment made on my 50th birthday by my sister who described me as the UNathlete. She meant well, but it stung and I decided to prove her wrong. Starting a running program is worth all the doubt and pain of the early sessions. Soon your self confidence will soar as you tackle something harder than most people are willing to try and SUCCEED at it--a little at a time.

And if you don't have support around you at home, all the more reason to come here where people understand and will applaud and support you as you embark on this journey!
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11. Nov 24, 2007 3:24 PM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Welcome Lori!
I am new to the C25K plan and just finished week 1. I used to joke with my running friends that I would only run if some big guy with a knife was chasing me. But like I said on the thread I started on here, 2 kids and an extra 40 lbs on a 5'2" frame made for a change of heart. I used to be a gym member (never insulted people though, how awful!!!) and I am not ready to go back in there. I live in a similar area where there are obsessive, beautiful people at the gym and anyone with a spare tire is looked at like a freak. But I am incredibly out of shape, to the point where going up stairs was making me winded.
The C25K program is really great, I did not think I would make it through the first week, but here I am. I actually look forward to my "Me-time" and getting out there running. Like another poster said, you can repeat the weeks as needed and get your body used to moving so much.
You can do this Lori. To heck with those that laugh or roll their eyes at you. Do this for you, not for them, and in a few months they will be saying "Wow, you look great! What are you doing??" Lean on us, I have found such great support here already!
Good luck and keep us posted!
-Stacey
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12. Nov 24, 2007 5:18 PM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Wow!! I must admit that some of these replies are bringing me to tears. It's been a bad few months and yesterday was especially bad. So I'm a bit emotionally "tweeked" so to speak!

I haven't gotten up off the couch for hours now, but I think before it gets too dark out, I'm going to attempt my W1D1 (See, I'm already a pro with the lingo)

Slowbutt, I'd love to have a buddy. What part of the country do you live in? How do we get e-mail addresses?

So I'm going to find some clothes (don't think I have anything wicking, except some candles...hahaha), layer a lot, and DO IT.

Be back in an hour to let you know if the medics are on the way....

Thank you sooooo much everyone. Are there dedicated groups on here for regions? Or just core groups so you get to really know the people you are chatting with?
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13. Nov 24, 2007 9:04 PM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Welcome aboard and congratulations on W1D1. It gets better and better from here. Like many posters said, there are tons and tons of success stories here and it looks like you'll be adding yourself to the list of successes.

Most of what needs to be said has already been said by the posters above. I'll just iterate a bit and add my own two cents.

Persistence is the key to everything when it comes to running. You'll have periods of great progress and long plateaus that you can't seem to get over. Be persistent. I'm thinking that as the mother of two teens, you know a bit about persistence - apply it here.

Consistency is more important than intensity.

If you want to get in touch with runners in your area, check out the Run Together Forum on this site.

Post often, ask question, inspire others - it's what we do here.

If you want to do a marathon, I would HIGHLY HIGHLY HIGHLY HIGHLY reccomend (again, I say HIGHLY) running for at least a year (two is better) before you even set your sights on one.

Looking forward to your first race report.
Guest
14. Nov 25, 2007 8:41 AM in response to: Guest
Re: Am I too old and fat in Minnesota?
Well I did my W1D1 last night. I love to say it was easy, but it wasn't. My biggest issue is the sports bra. But that's an easy fix.

I was going to run outside, but as soon as the wind hit my face in the 20 degree weather, I headed for the gym. Luckily it was nearly empty. I picked a treadmill in the last row and said right out loud...."Welcome to your new journey, see you at the finish line". Don't know who I was talking to, but hope they were listening!

The first 15 minutes was super easy. But then the pain started. It's got to be from bad shoes. It was all over the fronts of my legs, below my knees. At one point at about 20 minutes, I had to stop. But I got right back on.

I have so many questions. What else should I be doing? Weights, eliptical? Or should I only be focusing on the running/walking/jogging part? I am working towards weight loss as well, so shouldn't I be burning a LOT more calories and toning up the flabby areas as well? I don't want to do anything that will be counter productive though.

Slowbutt, e-mail me! I'd love to have a cyber training buddy!