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Click to view mucho apetito's profile Pro 74 posts since
Jan 18, 2006
45. Jan 9, 2007 6:15 PM in response to: standophish
quote:<HR>Originally posted by Detroit:
"a full sugar soda and three small bags of doritos"....who HASN'T done that at one time or another? <HR>


At 7:30 on the morning?? While already hugely obese?

Sorry, no.
Click to view BookLover1977's profile Rookie 4 posts since
Oct 26, 2006
46. Jan 9, 2007 8:27 PM in response to: standophish
I'm only in my second week of the C25K program, and I'm only on my third month of weight watchers (about 25 lbs to lose, not hugely obese but still too heavy) so you have no reason to pay attention to my post, but it seems to me that this dorito-eating woman should be regarded the same way I would hope you regard your running - with humility, grace and compassion. Certainly you cut yourself some slack when you have a bad run...perhaps for her 3 bags of doritos is cutting down. Regardless, her choices have nothing to do with you or how you live your life, and she deserves nothing but your compassion. Be thankful her struggle is not your own. there but for the grace of God go I, or something like that.

And of course the obesity epidemic needs to be dealt with - I work in health care and I see its frightening effects everywhere. But I see posts like this often on this website, and ALL the time on the weight watchers community boards, and I still don't understand how much hatred and distaste can be directed towards the obese, or even heavy. I mean, so much time, wasted, worrying about what other people eat, instead of running or reading a book or something? Or posting something kinder, here? Why?
Click to view Detroit094's profile Pro 133 posts since
Mar 14, 2005
47. Jan 9, 2007 8:38 PM in response to: standophish
mucho appetito

I'm guessing you aren't in college then.

yes at 7:30 in the morning.
Click to view mucho apetito's profile Pro 74 posts since
Jan 18, 2006
48. Jan 9, 2007 9:14 PM in response to: standophish
I still don't understand how a total stranger kept Cindy-whatshername from doing all those marathons...
Click to view Tim Carmichael's profile Pro 148 posts since
Oct 5, 2007
49. Jan 9, 2007 11:02 PM in response to: standophish
If you haven't been there, it's hard to imagine why people can't lose weight.

I was "only" 40 lbs. overweight when I started running this past summer. I still have 15 lbs. to go.

You lie to yourself when you're overweight. You lie so you can keep doing what is enjoyable--eating what you want. I LOVE nachos with chili and buffalo wings and fries and enchalidas with loads of chips on the side. I love to eat.

I cut back--did the "lite" food thing but until my wife got a calorie counter book, I had no freakin' idea what I was putting into my body. I was cutting back to 3000 calories a day (that was before I started running). The snacking during the day was just the icing on the cake, so to speak.

Now, I'm at 2000 calories a day and burning 600 by running or biking.

The best example of lying to yourself is my wife's aunt. She was "cutting back" and "on a strict diet". They went to Bob Evans' for dinner. Her Aunt had meatloaf with mashed potatoes, gravy, green beans and biscuits. My wife didn't have the heart to tell her that she wasn't exactly eating 'diet food'.

But, that's how it works--you B.S. yourself into believing that you really are cutting back but the calories are still way above what you need to run your body on every day. I don't know how to bring people back to reality. My daughter needs help and she's on track now with a workout program but I really emphasized to her how she is lying about what she eats. One day at a time...

I still think Archer-Daniels-Midland is the Anti-Christ for all the High Fructose Corn Syrup they've foisted on the American public over the past 40 years! TC
Click to view Sparrowface's profile Amateur 34 posts since
Dec 14, 2007
51. Jan 10, 2007 12:16 AM in response to: standophish
fat people are jolly
Click to view bfry07's profile Rookie 4 posts since
Dec 13, 2006
52. Jan 10, 2007 9:01 AM in response to: standophish
"Oh, that was YOU at those junk-food eating events at the state fair last year? People had to waddle from the cotton candy vendor to the dorito vending machine to the soda machine as fast as possible. Were you the one that wobbled, then fell off the edge of the stage and knocked over the funnel cake booth?"

standophish: you just made coffee come out of my nose, that had me laughing so hard!!!

that description is priceless!!
thank you.
Click to view dg12002's profile Legend 622 posts since
Aug 26, 2003
53. Jan 10, 2007 9:08 AM in response to: standophish
quote:<HR>Originally posted by standophish:


Still shaking my head at the full-sugar pepsi...

<HR>


Sad thing is that full sugar drink is safer than Splenda.
http://www.mercola.com/2000/dec/3/sucralose_dangers.htm[/URL" target="_blank">
Click to view bfry07's profile Rookie 4 posts since
Dec 13, 2006
54. Jan 10, 2007 9:20 AM in response to: standophish
"Hello, I was the fat woman at the laundromat,did you notice me last summer when I competed in 2 triathlons? Oh yes you were probably the one that almost kept me from doing them!"

well Cindyethel, your comment seems pretty accurate and I'd have to agree with your assessment of her situation, here is why:

as is typical with obese people, they commonly make everything a pity party. Instead of relishing the success of actually hauling "your" huge mass through a triathlon (I have rarely if ever seen an obese person compete in one of these but that?s besides the point) and having a positive attitude, it becomes a whine fest about strangers judgment and past victimizations. Many, many people have suffering and pain in their lives and terrible things they can?t control. Its how you deal with these things, isn?t it? and your characterization of that womans life story just goes to confirm that you also assume that obese people have whiney, losers attitudes.
Click to view bfry07's profile Rookie 4 posts since
Dec 13, 2006
55. Jan 10, 2007 11:34 AM in response to: standophish
100texan, i applaud you for stifling your disgust with your office, because i can imagine its an irritating thing to have to watch/ be around every day.

for a fat person if someone in the office turns down the brownies, sausage, cupcakes, doughnuts, or whatever lard-laden smorgasbord of gluttony they happen to be diving face first into- it only amplifies their own feeling of failure to have self control. Therefore they must try to push their bad choices on others, so they don?t feel so bad about themselves. am suprised they didnt pin you down and force feed you considering they were probably all so miffed that you wouldnt partake in the pig-out.
Click to view boosiebutt's profile Pro 101 posts since
Jul 25, 2006
56. Dec 26, 2007 3:56 AM in response to: standophish
Not coming down on one side or another about opinions about others' food intake (except for maybe bfry, who needs to look into getting help for rage issues), but in the building where I work, the only microwaves are down in vendo-land. While I'm heating my lunch, I like to check out the selection to see what the "best-choice" options are.

Today, and usually, the best choices are: milk, water, and v-8. There used to be canned fruit, but no longer.

The rest of the choices are powdered donuts, twinkies, big-grab bags of chips, giant microwave "mexican" food, etc. Fine once in a while if you're looking to go a little nuts, but if you're not, look elswhere.

http://This message has been edited by boosiebutt (edited Jan-10-2007).
Click to view Sparrowface's profile Amateur 34 posts since
Dec 14, 2007
57. Jan 10, 2007 1:28 PM in response to: standophish
fat people are sinners (gluttony)
Click to view ldennis's profile Expert 41 posts since
Dec 14, 2007
58. Jan 10, 2007 1:30 PM in response to: standophish
100 texan - I really get what you're saying about work. Actually, not five minutes ago I was heating up my lunch (chicken soup that I had made) and a 'portly' coworker commented "Wow, you made that?!"

IT"S SOUP! You add vegetables and chicken to broth or stock and cook it. Not rocket science.

She is always commenting on my food, while she eats her takeout lunch (we go to one restaurant a day and the receptionist picks up lunch for everyone who buys.)
True, not all fat people are lazy and eat only garbage, some have emotional issues, etc. But most of them are, sorry to not be PC.
As for noticing that an obese woman was eating three bags of Doritoes and a Pepsi at 7 in the morning, um yeah, you gotta
look, just like a train wreck! @

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If running were easy, everyone would do it!
Click to view LifeIsAMarathon079's profile Amateur 20 posts since
Jul 28, 2006
59. Jan 10, 2007 2:04 PM in response to: standophish
Why do you all get so worked up over how other people live their lives? Chill out. The comments we make are more of a reflection on ourselves than what you're commenting on.