Re: Considering becoming vegetarian-questions
chele, I had dieted many, many times over many years until I figured out what worked for me in terms of feeling full, getting the right nutrition, having energy to live and work out, and finally getting to and maintaining a healthy weight. Being consistent about recording is a big part of it. I have definitely been in the place where I'm really sticking to my plan all day and then fall down at night and don't write anything down, then of course feel bad in the morning so I skip standing on the scale so the day's weight doesn't get recorded, etc. It's a bad cycle. I find what helps a lot is a) having no food in the house that's easy to overeat - everything in the house should take at least 10 minutes to prepare; b) planning all of my meals at least a day in advance and not allowing myself to veer from the plan by even one iota - if I said I'm going to eat broccoli at dinner I have to eat broccoli at dinner, even if I feel like spinach. That really takes the emotional component out of it as well as the end of the day tiredness mixed with hunger which leads you to make decisions you'll regret.
It's funny what you say about butter. I'm glad I never developed a taste for it because I didn't grow up with it in the house. But my husband could eat a piece of toast with butter, cream cheese, and jelly on it and he thinks that's a great delicacy. (So we don't keep butter or cream cheese in the house.) Do you think you could handle adding nuts to your earlier meals to get a little fat in that doesn't make you crave more? Another suggestion is to turn your meals upside down - eat what you might eat for dinner for breakfast instead and then eat a light breakfast-like dinner. That way you'll be getting the same nutritional result, but your protein-heavy meal will be early in the day. I actually eat beans at almost every meal, including breakfast, so the amount of protein is split pretty evenly between the three meals.