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Click to view bostontodd's profile Amateur 31 posts since
Dec 14, 2007

Nov 12, 2007 9:38 AM

Rude runner?

So I was about 7 miles into a 9 mile run yesterday in central park, NYC. I had been feeling very good and decided to do the last 4 or so at tempo pace. I pass this couple who were jogging, and the guy yells at me "Slow down buddy, you're not impressing anyone". Without looking back, I yelled back , "I'm not trying to". I wanted to stop and ask this guy what his problem was, but I didn't want to interrupt the workout. It just really bugged me after I thought about it for a while, especially because I'm not out there to impress anyone, I'm out there to run and train, and a fellow runner should know that. Anyway, just wanted to vent.
Click to view Girl In Motion's profile Legend 253 posts since
Feb 4, 2007
1. Nov 12, 2007 9:49 AM in response to: bostontodd
What a jerk! Who knows what his problem is, but he definitely has one.
Click to view Nobby063's profile Legend 630 posts since
Dec 14, 2007
2. Dec 26, 2007 7:31 AM in response to: bostontodd
quote:<HR>Originally posted by bostontodd:
So I was about 7 miles into a 9 mile run yesterday in central park, NYC. I had been feeling very good and decided to do the last 4 or so at tempo pace. I pass this couple who were jogging, and the guy yells at me "Slow down buddy, you're not impressing anyone". Without looking back, I yelled back , "I'm not trying to". I wanted to stop and ask this guy what his problem was, but I didn't want to interrupt the workout. It just really bugged me after I thought about it for a while, especially because I'm not out there to impress anyone, I'm out there to run and train, and a fellow runner should know that. Anyway, just wanted to vent.<HR>


Actually that's pretty funny! :-D That's when I would express my appreciation with a body language... It only involves one finger! But most probably I would have just ignored. Why even waste your breathe for an a$$ like that?

http://This message has been edited by Nobby (edited Nov-12-2007).
Click to view JimR022's profile Legend 1,008 posts since
Jan 16, 2002
3. Nov 12, 2007 10:08 AM in response to: bostontodd
I would have said "Maybe, but I caught your attention..didn't I ?!?".

don't bother with the a$$-wipes.
Click to view fiatsrcool's profile Pro 100 posts since
Oct 11, 2007
4. Nov 12, 2007 11:38 AM in response to: bostontodd
Yeah, he would have gotten my finger also. : )

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Click to view dmagic17's profile Amateur 19 posts since
Dec 14, 2007
5. Nov 12, 2007 11:43 AM in response to: bostontodd
I bet his girl was impressed...
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6. Nov 12, 2007 11:59 AM in response to: bostontodd
How about, "This IS slow...you douche bag."
Click to view JPGarland's profile Legend 780 posts since
Dec 7, 2007
7. Nov 12, 2007 11:59 AM in response to: bostontodd
In all my years (long ago) of running in Central Park, that never happened to me. You did well on the spur of the moment. My preference is not to give the finger -- haven't done that in like 30 years -- but to give a dismissive "whatever" wave or even a thumbs up, which always confounds the people to whom it's directed.
Click to view dg12002's profile Legend 622 posts since
Aug 26, 2003
8. Nov 12, 2007 12:03 PM in response to: bostontodd
That's shame speaking.
Click to view RIFLASH's profile Expert 53 posts since
Dec 14, 2007
9. Nov 12, 2007 12:11 PM in response to: bostontodd
When i come across an a$$ like that I just
give them a freindly wave....
I love messin with their head!
Makes me feel better than givin the finger.
Click to view David Miller's profile Amateur 39 posts since
Aug 24, 2007
10. Nov 12, 2007 12:24 PM in response to: bostontodd
It was just his inner Yankee feeling some inadequacy towards your screenname. ;-)
Click to view MGinNYC's profile Legend 198 posts since
Jan 18, 2005
11. Nov 12, 2007 2:11 PM in response to: bostontodd
That wasn?t me; I was away all weekend!

And don?t waste a single second of your life trying to comprehend the jerks of the world.
MG
Click to view brown82799's profile Legend 308 posts since
Dec 14, 2007
12. Nov 12, 2007 2:46 PM in response to: bostontodd
quote:<HR>Originally posted by immyfish:
It was just his inner Yankee feeling some inadequacy towards your screenname. ;-)<HR>


exactly....harsh reality is killing the sob....
Click to view lioness1's profile Legend 375 posts since
Apr 1, 2001
13. Nov 12, 2007 2:52 PM in response to: bostontodd
Someone, as I recall, asked me between repeats of a swim workout something sarcastic of the "are you trying to make the Olympic team or something, ha ha ha" kind of question. And, no, I'm not fast, but why should that mean I'm not entitled to do interval workouts (on the track or in the pool) and the like (heh, I need them all the more!)? I just gave him a long, blank look and continued with my workout.

Another time, I was swimming at what was a pretty comfortable pace, and by no means fast at all (as in, I regularly finish at the end of the pack in any swim competitions), and some man in the next lane was scrambling as hard as he could (could tell by the splash level and his panting when he got to the wall) to pass me, which he did just before I reached the wall. When I came to the wall, I smiled at him as I turned to start my next length. Okay, man, whatever floats your boat.

I took these incidents for the displays of macho bravado that they seemed to be... but one rather troubling incident happened when I was running on a track and a woman I guessed to be in her 70s, very angrily said, "You're so much faster than I am, and that's because you're younger. And someday you'll get older too. I wish I could be young and fast like you" (note: again, my speed wouldn't have dazzled anyone), "but I'm not." And she went on in this fashion almost every time I went by her on the track. The troubling aspect of this for me was that I actually felt sorry for her. It didn't seem as if she was enjoying herself, and was taking it out on me, and it made me sad that she seemed so frustrated and unhappy.

Lots of strange responses to runners, that's for sure!
Click to view RunnersHigh's profile Legend 259 posts since
Nov 24, 2006
14. Nov 12, 2007 3:36 PM in response to: bostontodd
I wouldn't have heard him....I would of had my IPod cranked! Just another reason to run with an IPod!