"...the fossil record shows that evolution "obviously" happened, but scientists can't locate transitional fossils. ... the few fossils that are touted as transitional are argued in the scientific community as being their own separate species that became extinct and not a transition from one to another."
Would you care to cite the literature showing that scientists "cannot locate transitional fossils, please, along with a list of the papers arguing that "those few fossils that are transitional" really are separate species. While you're at it, I'd appreciate it if you'd take a look at the papers discussing the evolution of the horse and the whale while you're at it.
"We know species change over time and adapt, which is where evolution is fact. We see it. We have miniature chihuahuas and great danes, but we still just have dogs. Evolutionary science can correctly point out that these two species may have had a common ancestor, but science has no evidence that these animals came from rodents or horses or anything else for that matter. None. I challenge anyone to find anything but speculation."
You're making a pretty sweeping claim, here. Have you examined the scientific literature thoroughly to prove that the is "absolutely no evidence" of speciation?
Really! If you're going to claim that there is no evidence that evolution - including the formation of new species and everything else that's covered in the theory, I'm going to demand that you make some effort to justify that conclusion by actually looking at the evidence. Heck, you don't even need to go back to the original literature. There's enough legitimate treatises available in the general science section of your local bookstore that you should get a good feel for what scientists feel is the evidence supporting the theory. After doing so, feel free to point out where their evidence and/or their conclusion is in error. At that point your arguments stand a chance of being taken seriously.
If you are unwilling to examine the scientific evidence for evolution, you have no business arguing against it because you have no idea what you're talking about.
"I think it is possible to believe that God and evolution can co-exist. You must believe that God has no knowable purpose for his creation. After all, who are humans to say that we are any more important than the lady bug? We are just the current stepping stone for the next species that we will eventually evolve into. And if God is using evolution to do his will, people like Hitler and Stalin were very important in God's scheme of things, as they are contributing to the "survival of the fittest" framework of a world that runs on evolutionary principles. Evolution is cold, unloving and hard - our idea of God is not."
In one sense I agree (at least partially) with you: that "God" has "no knowable purpose for his creation." After all, who are we to say that we are the pinnacle of creation, or that we know what "God's" purpose is in his creation. Do you know why "God" does everything he does?
Your assumption that this is the only way "God" and evolution can co-exist, though, is completely fallacious. All you have to do is understand that evolution is nothing more than the mechanism that "God" uses to perform his creation.