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17 Replies Last post: Nov 20, 2007 8:10 PM by Rich Mac   1 2 Previous Next
Click to view MnD's profile Pro 146 posts since
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Nov 19, 2007 4:42 PM

Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?

18? 21?
Hopefully our neighbors have figured this out for their now 19 year old daughter. Last year Dad was pouring her a glass of wine and 5 minutes later Mom was scolding her and taking it away.
Click to view BonitaApplebum's profile Legend 382 posts since
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1. Nov 19, 2007 4:48 PM in response to: MnD
Re: Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?
We only have one family member anywhere in the range... 22yo niece. Before she was of age she got to have one glass of wine with dinner.

Back in the day my folks let me knock a couple back. I don't think they ever caught on to the fact that my brother and I usually smoked a bowl in dad's workshop a few minutes before we all said grace...

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2. Nov 19, 2007 4:50 PM in response to: MnD
Re: Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?
I remember having a glass of wine with my Thanksgiving dinner when I was a Jr or Sr in high school. No biggie.
Click to view wyrillco's profile Legend 347 posts since
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3. Nov 19, 2007 4:51 PM in response to: MnD
Re: Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?
Ha, Bonita! That's funny!
Click to view BonitaApplebum's profile Legend 382 posts since
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4. Nov 19, 2007 4:53 PM in response to: MnD
Re: Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?
quote:<HR>Originally posted by wyrillco:
Ha, Bonita! That's funny!<HR>


We certainly thought so at the time. Nothing like a mad giggling fit over the brussells sprouts...

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Click to view Endure's profile Pro 65 posts since
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5. Nov 19, 2007 5:20 PM in response to: MnD
Re: Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?
quote:<HR>Originally posted by BonitaApplebum:
I don't think they ever caught on to the fact that my brother and I usually smoked a bowl in dad's workshop a few minutes before we all said grace...<HR>


I think mine caught on.

This post made me crack up. Ah, the holidays.
Click to view bigapplepie's profile We're Not Worthy 2,636 posts since
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6. Nov 19, 2007 5:23 PM in response to: MnD
Re: Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?
My nieces generally started to drink at family occasions at 5 or 6. By 11 or 12 they could have a glass of wine.
Click to view 770's profile Legend 320 posts since
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7. Nov 19, 2007 5:29 PM in response to: MnD
Re: Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?
I've never seen any family members under 21 having anything alcoholic (beer, wine, mudslides, etc) to drink. But that doesn't mean they didn't find a way around it.
Click to view filetmerlot's profile Amateur 35 posts since
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8. Nov 19, 2007 5:37 PM in response to: MnD
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the funny thing is that the kid will always say how good the wine is like they are a wine snob. It could be boones farm, but they will never admit to not liking it
Click to view Norma Stark's profile Pro 133 posts since
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9. Nov 19, 2007 8:41 PM in response to: MnD
Re: Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?
Wine at 16, and only one glass with dinner. Heck for my 16th birthday my folks got me a bottle of wine with a custom happy birthday label.
Click to view MiniDriver's profile Legend 315 posts since
Dec 14, 2007
10. Nov 20, 2007 8:20 AM in response to: MnD
Re: Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?
I can't remember a time when I wasn't served wine at Thanksgiving and Christmas, so I must have been 5 or 6.

I wouldn't serve a non-family member under 21 unless I'd had permission from the parents.
Click to view kerfwango's profile Pro 127 posts since
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11. Nov 20, 2007 8:40 AM in response to: MnD
Re: Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?
quote:<HR>Originally posted by filetmerlot:
the funny thing is that the kid will always say how good the wine is like they are a wine snob. It could be boones farm, but they will never admit to not liking it<HR>


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12. Nov 20, 2007 8:44 AM in response to: MnD
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Click to view tri_coach06's profile Legend 662 posts since
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13. Nov 20, 2007 9:00 AM in response to: MnD
Re: Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?
Every year I go to my sisters for T-day. Every year my sis and my bride have champagne with strawberries. Last year my bride offered my nephew, at the time a 15 y/o, the strawberry. The way he acted you would have thought she offered him a syringe filled with heroin.

Good thing I don't have children because I just don't see the problem with a teen having a bit of alcohol. I'm not talking about giving them a bottle of vodka and a slap on the arse. I'm talking about a half bottle of beer while watching the games.

CS
Click to view Julia Sugarbaker's profile Expert 46 posts since
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14. Nov 20, 2007 5:50 PM in response to: MnD
Re: Drinking age for friends and family on Thanksgiving?
As the oldest child, I was definitely the most repressed. The Christmas I was 21, I was not even allowed to have a glass of wine with the adults at dinner.

The following year, my younger sisters (then 17 & 18) had worn my parents down enough that Mom was fixing their cocktails.

What my parents didn't know was that I drank so much throughout high school that I didn't have much of a taste for getting drunk by the time I turned 21. Ah, parents.