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I think it's great that you want to include strength training as part of your marathon preparation. Far too many distance runners neglect their upper body conditioning and that is a big mistake. Tired arms, shoulders, back, etc. lead to poor form at the end of longer races. The key is to participate in a routine that utilizes high repetitions of relatively low resistance. You want build endurance, not bulk. I like to do natural resistance exercises (ones that utilize your own body weight - push-ups, pull-ups, crunches, dips, etc.) because you can do them pretty much anywhere and anytime, but weights are fine if done properly. Here's what I do:
2 or 3x week - 3 sets pull-ups, 3 sets chin-ups, 3 sets dips, 3 sets leg raises
6x week - blocks of 3 sets push-ups, 3 sets crunches, and 3 sets bicycles done once in the morning and once in the afternoon/evening
I hope you find this useful. Let us know if you have any more questions.
Good luck and happy running!
Jay