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3 Replies Last post: Jul 12, 2006 6:36 PM by Justdar  
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Jun 22, 2006 1:44 PM

Lower body Questions and beginner help!

I need some help. I have been trying to learn more about how to help my shape get the most out of what I am doing exercise wise. I am a "spoon" shape I guess, very slim upper body with good shape and not at all flabby, BUT My BUTT,Thighs and hips are very heavy and wide, much too heavy so I look fat and forget a bathing suit right now! :( I know I do have excess fat as I have some unsightly cellulite that I REALLY want to rid of. I have been walking for 2 years since my 2 1/2 year old was born, I try to walk at a fast pace for 3-4 miles a day or every other day at least, I have 4 young ones so time is limited. I started jogging about 2 months ago and go at a slow pace that is comfortable for me but I get a good sweat going.

O.K. MY MAIN question and I NEED HELP HERE is I just read some information saying that lunges and squats are NOT good for my shape! I JUST started adding these into my routine with jumprope AND very small weights(since I just started, I am using 5lbs each) for my upper body (I do use the weights with the lunges too ) as I read elsewhere weight training is ESSENTIAL to lose cellulite and tone your body.., I SOOOOO want to do the right thing and create a nice body for myself and something I can do inexpensively at home. Should I continue with the lunges and squats?? I hope I can but if it will only make my lower body BIGGER I obviously don't want that!!

I am going to try to do the weights every other day and if the squat/lunge thing is o.k. those on the days I do weights.., I try to do 1 hour Cardio every day alternating what I do...,

Thanks for reading through this and Thank you for your help in advance!!

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1. Jun 28, 2006 8:15 AM in response to: Momofplenty
Re: Lower body Questions and beginner help!
Ma'am,

You are not going to want to hear (read) this, but there is only so much you can do with cellulite. You can reduce it, but, even if you workout constantly (which, with 4 kids ,is impossible) it will not totally go away( without dangerous and expensive plastic surgery).

However, you can do something about losing fat, losing weight and toning your body that will improve your long term health, strength (which, once again, with 4 kids, you really need), and stamina. The reason I put the bad news first is because, while you need to have a goal, that goal needs to be realistic. If you begin working out thinking "I am going to have a body like Demi Moore" you are bound to be disappointed. Similarly if you make a goal of losing a great deal of weight, or fitting into a particular dress size or pair of jeans, you may be likely to see a missed day of exercise or a Krispy Keme pig-out as complete failure, instead of a minor setback..

I am sure you will have more responses from trainers and nutritionists. I am simply a doctor and someone who likes to be healthy. so here is my advice:

Pick something, some sort of athletic contest sometime in the near future (6-8 weeks). You seem to like running, so pick a short one like a 5k. Then, train for it. You don't have a lot of time for exercise, and I have never seen any form of exercise that efficiently burned fat , increased stamina and cardiovascular health like running.

Plus, once you have run a race, you may begin to consider yourself an athlete. I know I did. Then it stops being "working out" and begins being "training". Seeing yourself that way changes exercise from something you do to yourself into something you do for yourself.

It doesn't have to be running. My wife has the same cellulite issue, and she LOVES spinning. My coworker does power aerobics religiously. Their goals with their training have very little to do with looks (even though both look great) and more to do with being more and more able to push themselves, do more, and keep up with the instructors.

I would also begin doing some abdominal work and upper body weight training to help give you a more balanced figure and strengthen you lower back, abdominal muscles and upper body. Once again, it stops being something you do to give you a flatter belly or look better in a dress and begins to be something that makes you a better athlete.

Plus, the weight loss and muscle tone comes with it. Then you stop looking at the cellulite on your thighs and begin to see then muscle underneath and the strength and stamina that they contain. Plus, it becomes an outward sign of the discipline ans effort all athletes put into their training.
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2. Jun 28, 2006 11:30 AM in response to: Momofplenty
Re: Lower body Questions and beginner help!
I'm sorry you are getting confused on the mumble-jumble of exercise suggestions that contort what every new 'expert' says is the next big thing to do, or avoid, in your exercise. As a fitness professional, it bugs me when others 'classify' individuals as a certain body type, and how they shouldn't do this or should only 'do that' in their workouts. Its not creating a successful strategy, its just stealing your money & confusing you even more with its confusing messages.

Honestly, nothing ever works better than good-old fashioned, kick-butt hard work & wise choices in eating. It doesn't get any simpler than that. If you want something, you're going to have to work for it on all ends, and search for solutions, not look for excuses as to why it isn't working. (Big difference between a solution & an excuse. Every client I talk to has an excuse but they don't seek a solution until they find me!)

This doesn't mean you have to sacrifice a lot out of your life, but you do have to put some effort into it. 5 pound dumbbells unfortunately won't do the trick for you though. If it all it took was 10 extra pounds in 2 hands to make a difference, we'd all be a healthier country, right?

Think of it this way: how long could you workout and see results with walking or jogging 1 mile a day? If you went from zero miles a week to 5 or 6 miles a week, your body adjusts to the new demands, and perhaps you'd see some slight benefit. And if you keep up with just 5-6 miles a week, that's all your body adjusts to. No fat-budging, nothing happens.

Instead of wasting more space here, I invite you to visit my site for a free guide, titled "Strength or No Strength". This should help clear things up for you and get you on a track to better health, and help you decide what to do. I will say its a guide that is sort of a sales pitch for my area workouts, but the basics I talk about can still apply to you.

In fact, I've attached the guide here for anyone to view as they wish.

Rick Karboviak, CSCS
http://speeddialcoach.com/sons.pdf
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3. Jul 12, 2006 6:36 PM in response to: Momofplenty
Re: Lower body Questions and beginner help!
Mom,
I'm no professional, just a 50 year old woman with the same complaints as you. Actually I HAD the same complaint as you. I carried most of my excess weight in my hips and thighs. When I began to lose weight, through good diet and exercise, the fat came off from the top down. My butt and legs were the last to trim, but they FINALLY did. It took a couple of very frustrating years though. Spinning is great for cardio, I've done it for many years, along with distance cycling (100 miles a week at least) but nothing trimmed my legs like adding running to the mix. I started out walking and then began doing a mix of walking and running. There are some great websites that have training programs, one in particular called couch to 5k. Start out walking for x minutes then run for x repeat repeat repeat. Each week the durations change. I ran a 10K, something I NEVER thought I'd do, was smiling when I finished and psyched enough to consider doing a longer event.

Lunges, squats, donkey kicks, and sideways walking with a elastic band are the best exercises IMHO for strenthening and toning. Let me put it in simple terms we woman can appreciate. I used to buy relaxed fit jeans......now I can wear the classic fit.

Definitely find an event to train for!! Training for something is much more motivating and fun than just simply feeling like you're exercising. And be ready to have this be a way of life, not just something you'll do until you get where you want to be. Good luck!

Oh, and in terms of speed, don't even worry about it, you can increase that once you can comfortably do your 5K (3.1 mile) jog straight through. Interval training is the trick for that. Intersperse a short sprint every few minutes when you are doing your jog.