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Jun 23, 2008 7:39 PM by
Jimmy D Jarhead
2,098 posts since Dec 15, 2007
Jun 21, 2008 2:59 PM
Life's Advice for a Marathon
Birth to grade school
This is where one builds their base miles. A runner does not wake up on morning and determine that they will go and run a marathon. That is they don't wake up the morning of the marathon and line up at the starting line with no experience to help them understand what it means to run 26.2 miles. We are like kids in this phase of marathon. You must first learn to just get up the road and run a bit. No real goals just run every once in a while and experience a bit of life.
Teenage Years
As a teenager you gain the experiences that will shape you for years to come. This is where you learn what you like and where you would like life to take you. It is in these years that you figure out if life will be fast and chaotic or if you would rather take it nice and easy and just enjoy the way life passes by. It is here that you will determine how ambitious you are. Do you want to be a busy business man, work outdoors, work with your hands, enjoy a nice beer every now and again, get married, enjoy being a professional, or anything else that life will lead you through.
This is when the running needs to build his or her base miles and get ready for the challenge that life will provide you. This is when you experience the enjoyment of a long run every now and again, the speed session at the track, or the tempo run through the hills. You are learning how to make yourself the best runner, or more importantly the runner you choose to be.
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2,098 posts since Dec 15, 2007
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College/ Career
We all have the desire to attend college and many of us give it our best shot. Some of us find that the experiences that we had in our teenage lives makes us more then ready to live life without the extra time to prepare us more fully for adulthood, while others find that they need more then the standard four years to make it through college and getting ready to live life. Then there are those that are good at school and with a bit more education they can move on to be doctors and lawyers and CEO's. These people elect to enter into a more grueling education then the average person in order to enjoy bigger success.
This portion of life is when we as runners choose to enter into that thing we call a marathon training plan. Some will find that they experienced life in their teenage years in a way that allows them to simply enter a marathon and run it. These same people learn in later years they would have ran a much better race if they would have started with a training plan before just jumping into the marathon. The average person will select a 16-18 week plan and will stick to it so they can start the race with the biggest peace of mind knowing that, despite the nerves, they are ready for the race. Then we have those that will elect to go through a grueling 24+ week plan before showing up to the starting line. There is also the person that started a plan years ago before finally buckling down and getting through the plan albeit late in life.
Each one of us must determine which person we are and tackle our inner demons and inner peace to allow ourselves to show up to the starting line.
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2,098 posts since Dec 15, 2007
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20's
This is the age that we are feeling fresh and full of great ideas and life in general. Most of us have a good idea of where our own lives will end up and we get life started with great *****. Some of us are modest and just take life in stride without making too many mistakes that are going to cause us serious problems later in life. Others of us will have that stupid moment and make a mistake that will be extremely hard to come back from. Most of us though will find that at times we are not being bold enough and are not making the most of what we are capable of doing. And then at other times we are going too being too ambitious but will recognize this before it is too late.
As a marathon goes we are into the first 5 or so miles and finding our groove. The ones that refuse to understand that there are 26.2 miles in this race and start out way to fast will soon realize that the rest of the race will be almost impossible without great difficulty. Most of us will find that the first mile was way too fast and that we must slow down. It might take us several miles to find our race pace but we do and the rest of the race is fun and enjoyable as we watch others struggle by and fly by with different abilities. Again we feel like we could go faster but have learned that the race is long and we have to pace ourselves.
2,098 posts since Dec 15, 2007
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30's
In life many at this age have figured out what works in their life, spouses, children, no children, no spouse, food, beer, wine, and in general what they really like. It is in these years that we buy our house and know that we will survive the years come. We get into a groove that will allow for many more happy years to come. We have our careers well at hand and are more then happy to sit back and enjoy each passing day while living in the moments that are presented.
As far as the part of the marathon this encompasses we are well past mile 5 and inching ever closer to mile 10. We have found the pace we know we can handle. Some of us are well on track with what we have trained ourselves to handle while others are walking and suffering because they made bad decisions early in life. No matter the circumstance we are well within ourselves and know that while at times we are enjoying it we must be ready to deal with the times that we will not be so content. 99% of us are cruising along and enjoying the race at this point.
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2,098 posts since Dec 15, 2007
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40's
This is the age when we are really quick to try and make up for lost time or even try and reserve all that we can because we know that the hard p[art of life is fast approaching. Did we save enough early to survive the loss of a job or early retirement or worse even a trip to the doctor that will let us know that life has change directions on us. Some of us will keep getting up the road with no problem, while others will hit roadblocks that they must adapt to. These are the years when a person knows they are going to make it.
Miles 10-13 are scary because you feel really strong and have made it half way but are unsure whether you have what it will take to make it the rest of the way. That small knee pain in there and it concerns you and has you wondering if you should slow down. It is during these miles that you learn that you may not have been as good as you should have with your fluid and energy gel intake. There are a lot of variables that will cause you to wonder. For the most part however, the majority of us simply keep on running knowing that we are more then ready for the challenges that lay ahead.
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2,098 posts since Dec 15, 2007
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There aill be more to follow. I am tired of typing and thinking for the moment.
Jimmy
3,124 posts since Jan 18, 2008
Re: Life's Advice for a Marathon
Dam, you stopped before you got to me.
2,098 posts since Dec 15, 2007
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Jun 21, 2008 4:04 PM

in response to: lenzlaw
Re: Life's Advice for a Marathon
Len,
I will provide the 50's and 60's soon enough. I only wish I could speak smartly and not off of what I think I will be going through at hat time. What do you think of the other years and timelines assigned to the marathon?
Jimmy
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3,124 posts since Jan 18, 2008
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I think you have captured the essence. Though not many of us are aware of what we're going through while we're going through it.
2,098 posts since Dec 15, 2007
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50's
Well you are finally over that hill. Let's just hope it is the last one you have to climb! You have made it and life is about enjoyment at this point. You must now take pride in what you have accomplished. It may not be much but you must now enjoy each day because it could end at anytime. Okay most of us know that we have lived life in a way that will allow for many more days and years to come our way. You must use caution in doing all that you do because you want to continue to live life at the speed you have been cruising for the past several years. Learn now to enjoy life and still plan for future decades to come your way. Most of us will find the empty nest and that life will really change as we are at the top of the food chain with work experience as well as life experience. The young people still welcome us with open arms as equals and not those of great wisdom and a few more years. We are on top of the world.
We are also at the mid point of the race. Not to worry you have more then half way to go. We are at those middle distant miles that we have learned to appreciate and like through our training runs. Miles 14 through 18 are going to tell us a lot about the miles still to come. We must now rely on the preparation that has gotten us here. We have to proceed with caution as the next few miles will tell a story about how well we have ran so far. The crowd that has surrounded us throughout the race will begin to change as some of those that have ran with us to this point will begin to fall apart and others will begin to pick up the pace. In the good race we will be that one that picks up the pace and benefits from our run through life so far. At this point every runner that we pass or that passes us will provide that bit of encouragement and acceptance as someone who is going through the race with them.
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602 posts since Jan 19, 2008
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Jimmy, you are quite the philosopher.
2,098 posts since Dec 15, 2007
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60's
Well life finds us in yet another new decade. This one is one that finds us with fewer people in it and those people in it are a wide assortment of characters. There is the one that will talk openly and provide sage wisdom and the other that will try and persuade you to enjoy every day because they know that those days will soon come to an end. You find that you are now faced with life's decisions like downsizing your home or buying a vacation home. Retirement is now more of a reality then a dream and you have to deal with the solitude life offers as you no longer get up and go to work. The normal routine changes and you now fill the days with morning walks and evenings sitting on the porch. There are still a few in this age that try and remain young but struggle to do so. Friends become more and more important and life's differences no longer seem to matter as much.
These next several miles are really going to get sticky. The legs hurt but you know you have to just keep running and moving one step at a time. The crowd continues to dwindle as the pace is ever changing. Some of us are able to continue to run the same way we have for the entire race while others now have to walk more and more. Just as in life the race has a different impact on each one of us. Some of the runners you pass hardly notice you and others are looking for someone to help them through it. While we might struggle we know we will make it to the end if we just trust in our instincts and listen to our bodies.
Len I had adifficult time with this so feel free to interject or add to as you can.
Jimmy
3,124 posts since Jan 18, 2008
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Jimmy, I think you got it pretty good. This is why a lot of people never retire. Plus you start to see others drop along the way, family and friends, and you start to look mortality a little more directly in the eye (do we ever forgive our parents for dying?)
Len
2,098 posts since Dec 15, 2007
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Jimmy, I think you got it pretty good. This is why a lot of people never retire. Plus you start to see others drop along the way, family and friends, and you start to look mortality a little more directly in the eye (*do we ever forgive our parents for dying?)*
Len
Mine are still alive. I have forgiven them for all that I feel they wronged me in but not sure if I could forgive them for dying!
Jimmy
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3,124 posts since Jan 18, 2008
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Philosophically and, in a sense, physically, they stand between you and death. When they die it's just you. Mine have been gone for 10 years. They died 8 months apart in 1998, my dad very early the morning of the MCM. I ran thinking of him.
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