quote:<HR>Originally posted by Sightseer66:
All right, Andy, and no sarcasm here, really, can I summarize your points from your last post, to make sure I do get them, as follows?
1)There are some who expect others to find having run a marathon as very impressive.
2)There are some who would be wiser in choosing other goals for themselves, who are essentially not fully ready for a marathon.
3)There are some runners who are one and done with their first marathon.
4)There are some who are not realizing their full potential (in running or in life), and you would be happier if they knew fully what they could do.
Fair summary? If so, I hear you and I am not going to contest those points.
Here is where we can agree to disagree: I just don't know very many of these people. I know people who have been bit and can't give it up. I know people who have given it up only when their body just can't take it anymore, and I know people who have run one or two marathons and who have been so positively affected by the experience that it energizes how they live the rest of their life and their potential is expressed through other means. We know marathon times are slowing way down overall, but is that really statistically supportive of the kind of sweeping generalizations of the us/them kind that Sherman made in his article? My opinion, no.<HR>
Sightseer66:I would go even further from my experiences.
1) The newbies I know who have run a first marathon run them for a variety of reasons, but NOT primarily because they expect others to find having run a marathon very impressive. On the contrary, the people who seem overly concerned with what denton called the extrinsic awards, and overly concerned what others think and what, or more to the point, whom others find impressive, are the people who complain about the newbies ruining the sport because the newbies get as much recognition as they, the more "serious" runners, get.
2) Who is Andy or anyone else to judge what goals people set for themselves? If someone really hasn't trainied enough to complete a marathon without a good possibility of injuring themselves, that's a real concern. However, I don't think that's what Sherman (the article author) or Andy are really concerned about. If someone has trained sufficiently to finish with minimal risk of injury by running very slowly or adding in walk breaks rather than training for more years to really race, what's it to Andy or anyone else?
3} If some runners are done with their one and only marathon, again, so what? But, like sightseer66, that's not what I have seen either. I know people who have given it up because they prefer shorter distances and people who have gotten the bug, many fewer who have given up running altogether.
4) It's #4 that really takes the cake. Sure, there are some who are not realizing their full potential in running, but to make the huge jump to not realizing their full potential in life is way out of line. We aren't talking about going to college vs stopping at high school. We're talking about what people do for recreation. I know a lot of recreational runners who have very competitive or otherwise stressful jobs and put their energy and concentration into work and family and run marathons precisely because they want something that
is noncompetitive. If someone wants to cross something off a life list, or run a marathon for charity, or for fun to enjoy the bands, or even stop to take pictures along the way (I remember seeing a bunch of Japanese runners - qualified, not charity, by their bib numbers - doing just that at Boston a few years back), why should that matter to anyone else? Poeple like Sherman and Andy and everyone else, should look to their own goals and let other people worry about themselves.
If they are really concerned about the health of others, I would even go further and say, instead of worring about other participants getting as much praise as you, or the motivations of people you don't know squat about, why not get a little closer to home, and encourage you mother and father and aunts and uncles and friends and even grandparents to get on the bandwagon, join a group, maybe a Galloway group for the older folks, and join in on the fun!