I just want to say that this thread is a classic case of...
DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS
I think that all the advice you're getting to hold back on the downhills is misguided. They are there, you darn well better take advantage of them. Because if you're not, you're probably using your quads as brakes (which is an eccentric motion). That, my friends, is what trashes them for the uphills.
In my opinion, go out fast. Unless you're absolutely ridiculous, your fitness will forgive you. Note that this is not the same advice I'd give for just any marathon. It is specific to Boston - on a flat course, by all means hold back early on.
Furthermore if you're the kind of runner that gets better as the distance gets longer (like me), then at no point during the race should it feel like a walk. Not in the first few miles, not ever. For some of us, marathon pace is very close to 10K pace. That means it's fast and should feel fast. I averaged 5:57's last year. 5:57 never feels "easy" to me.
I also found that attracting attention to myself was a good thing. I loved how people would shout out my name in particular since I had it written down my arm. It doesn't necessarily have to take away fro your focus. The adrenaline might be worth it. I sure thought it was.
And it's possible to run negative splits, even if you take the opening downhills hard: I ran slightly negative in 2005 and even in 2006.