Just my 2 cents:

I agree totally with Lou. What some do not realize is just how important a role parents play in team chemistry, especially with travel ball where the parents and kids spend a great deal of time together on the road/in tournaments. Because of the money, travel and time the parents have vested in their child, they are a much bigger part of the overall team atmosphere that many think. A poor parent or two can be the downfall of an otherwise good season. If you think this could be a problem going in, nip it in the bud.

Do what's best for the team as a whole, and leave daddy at home.

DP

If it's a team in a league I'd ignore the dad. The problem with travel is spending a weekend together can drive away players when the parents can't stomach a few parents.

Make some team rules and have parents and players sign a contract. Have a meeting to review the rules. The first offense is a warning. The second offense is removal. Have a one on one with the dad. Tell him he's the reason these rules exists.

I had two such parents when I coached 10U. They had no problem saying their kids were all this and that kid stinks. Both their kids failed at 13U on the 60/90 field.

The dad may be a dillhole, but maybe the kid isn't. Maybe the kid is a very quiet, respectful person.  Why hold a talented kid back because dad is a dillhole?

Life may be short for this kid, if he keeps getting kicked off teams because of his dad.

Rules need to be set up and enforced for dillhole parents.

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Do not pick up the kid.

One of the best scouting moves I made at tryouts was making a note that a good player had a PITA grandparent/guardian. I did not draft him and watched as the team that got him was thrown into turmoil with the kid eventually being pulled by grandpa and not finishing the season. I fear a similar scenario for you.

Slugo, IMO, your making the right decision.  I hate hurting kids because of their PITA relatives, but have found not only will they cause problematic issues amougnst the other kids on team, they will do their best to undermine you, while sitting with the other parents during your games.  Most knowledgeable parents will dismiss it, but others with little baseball savvy, will listen to these PITAS.  tm

Rock, Scissors, Paper

GLM, PITA dad, Talented kid

Talking to the dad just makes them believe you either don't like them, the kid, or both.  That just simply create fodder for the backroom discussions of dissent that are inevitably going to happen.  People who are dillholes never believe themselves to be dillholes. The best you can do is respond positively when they approach you after being thrown off other teams.  At that point they may be willing to make some changes.  But if you "lay down the law" before they understand the dynamic you will be the dillhole in their eyes and you can't expect them to be quiet about it cuz they won't.

Making a bad situation for a whole team because you want to be nice to one unfortunate only ends in 12, rather that 1, unfortunate kids.