I am about a month post-op for two labral tears (superior and anterior) and for a necessary illiospoas release (it gets cut). I also have a torn gluteus medius tendon which will require a second suregery. The injury may be as old as 13 plus years. For the last four years the pain had been intractable and progressively disabling. Eventually, I could not sleep, eat, stand, sit, or walk. I had intense groin pain, lower back pain, hip girdle pain, thigh pain, butt pain.
Except for what I would expect from any surgery, my pain level is already cut in half. I can walk again. Now let me give you some background info about me. I'm close to fifty but was a national and world ranked athelete for years. I tried out in two events for an olympics by invitation from the US Olympic Committee and was also a world ranked miler. I have had three ortho procedures, two were labral tears of the shoulder. Overall, this procedure was a piece of cake. If you are having problems now that are slowly worsening, I can't imagine that you are going to not eventually need the surgery. The tears don't heal. I was out on a four mile hike (as always working through the pain) when suddenly I could not take another step and I was over a mile out. I was then on crutches for the next 4 months until surgery.
I think you are scheduled with Mark Phillibon. And get realistic, you won't be able to get in touch with him until you see him. There are about 7 orthopods who do this surgery (Boston, Vail, Tallahassee, OK, San Diego, San Francisco, and St. Louis). For the person in DC, please check out Dr. McCarthy (sp?) in Boston. Dr. Phillibon has a big name and is very good but Dr. McCarthy may be the name amongst those in the profession.
I had that deep lower ab pain and worked for years on stretching my illiospoas, but it was always tight and irritated. Anyway, it was part of the injury and it rolled over the hip joint incorrectly. Therefore, it was released. It will increase the recovery time but I feel so much better. Of course, I need to work on deep core, but that is no big deal.
Hang in there - it is not as scary as it seems. Honest!